!!! what is that mean?

Is the ! coming after you submit your words or during?? The only reason I am asking is that I have not seen that while I participate. Unless like Mike says above it is the (!) we see to report our participation. The only time we only see the (!) is for our own participation as we cannot rate ourselves. When we are logged in we are able to see (+), (-), (!) for others participation's. Reason we see it for them is that we are allowed to rate others. We cannot rate ourselves and you will be able to rate after you reach (100).

That means i think you have to improve your quality of posting and be descriptive regarding the comments or responses..