How To Play A Role Of A Mother?!
By JulyKing
@JulyKing (110)
China
October 24, 2011 10:52pm CST
How to play a role of a mother?Not only a question do I want to ask ,but also self-reflection to someone!
In effect,I am not a mother and I even don't have a boyfriend,but I can understand the women's mood who have been a mother because I have a wonderful mother and my parents' parents are wonderful too!I always think about something in their shoes!
Being a mother is not a simple thing as she could take all things in connection with her children into consideration and put up with her children's ill temper.Most of the time,she must be patient to teach them in the right way!
Of course,the role of a father is also important in his children's life!
Would you like to share your experience or just view with us about being a father or a mother!
Thank you for reading and have a good day!^_^
5 responses
@benwang (93)
• China
25 Oct 11
Hey,JulyKing, for me, my parents are in my hometown in the northern China, while I'm currently working in the Southern China. If I need to go to my hometown then I have to take by train for almost 30 hours, or by airplane for almost 3 hours to Beijing, then take by train to my hometown.
Maybe in the future I would keep staying in the Southern where is far away from my parents and I miss them very much. Maybe i'd like to ask them to come here in the future if I could afford to buy a house. But it seems like a daydream to buy a house now in the big cities of China.
@JulyKing (110)
• China
25 Oct 11
Hi,benwang!
My condition is as same as you!But my home is in hubei province and I am working in shenzhen now. I have never thought about buying house in shenzhen,one reason is I can't afford that!^_^ But the main reason is I wanna take care of my parents when they are old!You know,the old is always lonely!One day,they begin to be unable to do something ,they will be warm and happy as long as we are staying with them!
Oh,I will be off duty at once!See you!
@anusha2128 (886)
• India
25 Oct 11
This will be big question that no mom can answer... Coming to my experience i too had a good mom and dad. They will always think about me even i am married. My mom calls me every day and asks about my health,life etc..Sometimes i will shout on her but she replies with lots of patience.. Now i am going to become a mother with in 2months. I have to be like my mom with my child...Hope i will do it...
@JulyKing (110)
• China
25 Oct 11
Hi,anusha!
There is a chinese story,and I wanna translate it into english to you!
When you were a kid,your mother spent much more time on studying you something like how to go,speak,wash and ride.ect.Then you grows up while your mother are becoming old.One day,when she begins to forget something,forgets to lace up her shoes,dirtys her clothes as she is having dinner,she would be very warm and happy as long as you are staying with her!One day,she become too old to walk,please hang on to her hands and accompany her to walk just like she caught your hands when you were a kid!
@GemmaR (8517)
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28 Oct 11
I think that the role of a mother is the most important role that any woman can take on. The very fact that you are the person who is completely responsible to how you child grows up and lives his or her life is the most tremendous weight on anybody's shoulders, and this means that you have to really stop and think about the kind of mother that you would like to be in the future. I know that I will make a good mother, because I think that it is simply one of those things that women are supposed to do during the course of their lives.
@r3jcorp (1382)
• Philippines
25 Oct 11
I am a mother with 2 wonderful daughters. The eldest is 14 years old while the youngest is 9 years old. They are world apart, with different personalities. I treat them as individuals, give them the freedom to do what they want but of course with limitations and guidance. Luckily, they are good children. They just like to study, to enhance their talents and be at our side. Sometimes, I feel i am a mother hen, where the children keep on following me. Though they each have sets of friends, when its time to go home, they just wanted to go home more than anything else. I am a mother who value education more than anything else, I help them with their assignments and projects and even give them review for their exams. I am also the kind who will take a leave just to attend a meeting in school or just to watch a simple dance of my daughter. I am not perfect as a mother, but I will do everything just to make the life of my daughters close to perfect.
@JulyKing (110)
• China
25 Oct 11
Hey,friend,how big of you!
I think you are a good mother because you know how to raise your children and even make them excellent!That's wonderful!You love your children but you don't dote upon them as general mothers treating their children!Yes,as a mother,you should not only love your own children very much and prevent them from any hurts,but also be very strict to them to make them become excellent!
@vasumathi (436)
• India
25 Oct 11
I think, nobody can replace the love and affection given by mother. It is highly difficult to play the role of a mother.
