If your family member suffer financially,will you feel sorry for them?
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
Philippines
October 25, 2011 1:43am CST
Well, i am sure i did sorry for them.I feel what they feel.Like they are poor i mean financially suffer.
I wish i can give more,or near,and the problem is what if they are in other country and not here same contry you live in?I still feel sorry, i wish i can give even little or help them..
5 responses
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
25 Oct 11
I've had tough times too, financially, while I was away from my family. I never bugged them about financial help because it's not so easy to do so. And even if you can't help them I sure it won't be an issue and they will definitely understand your reasons why you can't send help. There are good friends and maybe relatives within their reach wherever they are now, and that will be easier than getting help from someone who is in another country. However, if they still insist you to give them help then I would do as much as I can, in my little ways, to try to help them and give them what they need.
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
26 Oct 11
Yes i know and also experienced.But there are ways they can get support from ay friends,relatives,and others..
I can help if they are near,and if not what can i do is nothing just feel sorry and help them good..
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
26 Oct 11
you can help by praying and giving them moral support that they can surpass their trials. Sometimes what they need only need are someone who understands them, feels for them and someone who can listen to all their problems.
@eljayo (1105)
• Philippines
25 Oct 11
Hi! I myself have experience financial difficulties before and if I come across with a family member or friend I will indeed feel sorry and I have already felt sorry . I will do my best to help them in anyway I can and to pray fro them most importantly. I know the feeling of having nothing that is why I appreciate more the experience of having.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
25 Oct 11
You see if am in a position to help any of my week family member, I would surely do so.
Sometimes, circumstances make a family member financially week and at that time he expects that others should come for his help.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
26 Oct 11
Yes agree.What if they are out of your country,and what can you do to help..For me, i think it is hard for me to reach them because they are not near,and if no money,and cant help it but you are soory to them.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
26 Oct 11
Absolutely! Anyone I care about going through financial crisis I would certainly feel bad for them and try to what I can to help them out. If I am not in a position to help financially, maybe some food, humble helpful advise and absolute prayers can help.
@djordan (37)
• United States
25 Oct 11
OMG I am going through this now myself. They have four children all under the age of 5 and they are my main focus. They have help from me, our parents, grandparents and a few other family members. But it has been this way for years and they always say they have a hard time finding a job which I can understand. But the girlfriend had a job recently worked for two days and the did not go back but wants to ask me to pay her car note when I already pay both cell phone bills. I am to the point where I feel they have gotten complacent and know that people will help with them because of the kids. I don't want the kids to suffer because they have lazy parents. But I am to the point where I will help when I see that you are trying to help yourself.
