love is blind
By conquer2012
@conquer2012 (324)
China
October 25, 2011 2:01am CST
I have fallen in love with her for about a year, however, it seemed that she has not acknowledged me as her boyfriend. Because in public, she never talked about the relationship between us and what's worse, she seemed to keep it secretly. sometimes, I found that we were just common friends or less than a common friend. I felt confused about that. without anyone company, she seemed to love me so much while when I wanted to hand her hand in public, she became angry and refused. over and over again, I wanted to introduce her to my dear friends, she argued that she was not my girlfriend. I decided to depart with her, but at times she would phone me and speak some sweet words to me which made me felt happy and forget to break up with her because I would feel guilty if I have done it. so guys , is it a little hard to deal with? any suggestions?
7 responses
@sangita25 (3)
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26 Oct 11
Hi there first of all in these kind of relation we should know that she also loves you or not, is this a one sided love, if it's not then she don't have any reason to ignore you.
@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
25 Oct 11
Most girls enjoy showing off their partner, i will introduce mine to those i need to when the time comes. It took me months before my boss my him, and that was namely cause I had to ask my boss something and he was with me. But my partner has still met the guy i work with in person yet, and i've been seeing him for over a year now. I've not really met any of my partner's friends yet expect a few when i first met him, maybe this trip up to see him i mite get to met some of those he talks about.
Maybe ask her why she is acting like this, is she emmbrassed or affraid she mite not be good enough?
@narnia007 (1050)
• India
25 Oct 11
You should talk about this to her directly.There are two possibilities.First one is the thing that the girl I loved did to me.She did exactly the same things as your girl.She would call me and need only when she is alone.Other times when she is enjoying and having fun with other guys,she wouldn't mind me at all.My girl even proposed to some other guy when she was with me.She literally used me when she wanted me and left me when she other things to go on with.Other possibility is that,she may truly love you,but need some time to think about it and get to the next step.Think and decide for yourself and by speaking to her directly.
@flowerfest08 (1677)
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25 Oct 11
oh that's strange, because most of the girls would be so proud when their boyfriend wants to introduce them to his friends. but maybe she is the type of person that don't want to do public display of affection or she is too secretive about her personal life. maybe you need to tell her and make her understand that you feel hurt when she do that, and also ask her reason why she's like that.
@rmendoza123 (637)
• Philippines
26 Oct 11
Maybe your girlfriend is hiding something to you or she's hiding something within her family. Try to ask her about what's going on between the two of you.
LOVE IS NOT BLIND....
LOVERS ARE BLIND.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
25 Oct 11
Clear things up with her. It's unfair that you're left guessing what your relationship really is. Let her give a clear answer, and not some vague ideas. It's a - yes, you're together, or no, you're not. It's hard to be in a confusing relationship. So, before it gets any worse, settle it. Talk to her. I think that's the only way you'll know for sure. There is a line in a song which says, "If you want me to go, then say it. If you want me to stay, then show it." I guess she needs to do that for you.
