LOVE,,,,,,,, what should i do????

Malaysia
October 27, 2011 3:03am CST
I love someone since when i was age of 16. Now i am already 22. at first our life was too good. After 3 years i figure out that she is in a relationship with someone else also but now she is alone and she want to come back... What should i do?????
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@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
27 Oct 11
Hi... Do you mean that a lady was engaged with you n she left you for someone and now wants you back???? Instead of askin' us you should have asked yourself. Your Dignity would have told you that even if she came crawling a 1000000 miles, your answer should be NO, and a firm one too. What assurance we have that she won't go again for someone else????
• Malaysia
27 Oct 11
Ya,,, she was in a relation with me that time she was in a relation with someone else too.... Problem is still i love her, i cant avoid her. even if she call me i cant avoid. She know all my cell number and home phone number. So far she is just asking me to pardon her but i know she want me back thats why she keep calling me. I am confuse....
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
1 Nov 11
Dear fellow... Don't get into it... You love her, fine... Keep it to yourself... Be a good friend to her, no problem.. But don't get into relationship anymore... How can she have two relations at the same time??? I mean, we live in a civilized world and Bigamy isn't a part of it... Why, your mind will tell you that you shouldn't get into it... Tell her straight, you appreciate her feelings, but you have other views... Good Luck!
• India
27 Oct 11
I think she is just taking a chance of your love. Do you really believe her that she will not move again to other person in future? If yes you can definitely invite her in your life and be happy.Just ask her that she really loves you. I think you are in love with her deeply and that's why you are thinking about her again.All the best for your and be happy.
• Malaysia
27 Oct 11
This is the problem now. how can i believe her??? Before this, i think i believe her more then me but she did this to me. now i am established. i have my own job with high salary. how should i not believe that she is not selfish???? I am confuse....
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
27 Oct 11
what are u waiting for buddy. Just go and say it to her how u feel about her. Let her decide what she has to do . Throw the ball in her court and see the results. Have a nice day
• Malaysia
27 Oct 11
Thanks,,,,, Actually i am confuse,,, last time she betray with me. now i cant get support from my mind,,,, If she do it again.....
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
27 Oct 11
I don't actually get the part that she wants to come back... where? to the hometown? or to you? Have you both been in a relationship before she was involved with someone? If both of you have been in a relationship and left you before, then you have to think twice whether this girl is also inlove with you or just playing with your feelings. However, If you both has not been a couple before, then why don't you try your luck this time. Maybe she'd realize she also have feelings for you.
@davaome (1826)
• Philippines
1 Dec 11
What are you waiting for? This the chance that your waiting for. not alot of people are given that kind of chance. Go for it. Don't end up regretting that you missed a chance of a lifetime, tell her how you feel, and give it your all. Good luck
@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
22 Oct 15
If you are really love her, you just need to come back to her and love her with your full heart. Women need there are someone who accompany her when she in sad condition. Believe me your love will healing him from hurt.
27 Oct 11
hi:) well if she's single and you're single it's alright to be together especially if you both like each other. so what are you waiting for, tell her already what you feel. goodluck!