How could you keep secret?

@svjomboy (873)
Philippines
October 28, 2011 9:55pm CST
Guys do you believe that if you have secret in your life, you wont get happiness?
8 responses
@JulyKing (110)
• China
29 Oct 11
Hello,svjomboy! Undoubtedly,everyone has their own secrets,various kinds of secrets no matter they are positive or negative!You could tell your secrets which made you unhappy to your intimate acquaintance!I have a twin sister and there are no any secrets between us because we would say anything to each other!You could also write them down if they really had effect on your emotion and you were not willing to tell them to anyone else! Have a good weekend!
@JulyKing (110)
• China
29 Oct 11
haha!maybe you are right!^_^
@svjomboy (873)
• Philippines
29 Oct 11
hello julyking, you have a nice idea, thank you for sharing yes i agree some people keep secrets but i think the good idea is just to confess to the God...is it the good idea?
@Mashnn (4501)
29 Oct 11
It depends what type of secret, some of the secret yes while others no. The secret will always hunt you and no matter how much you try to denial it, it will always comes back. But why then keep a secret especially from someone you love or your family. I would better reveal the earlier the better than later embarrassments.
@svjomboy (873)
• Philippines
29 Oct 11
mashnn welcome to mylot, yes a secret long time ago this related with the family, but if i will told them the truth i think its just mistrusting with me. SO it is good to keep secret at all?
@Mashnn (4501)
29 Oct 11
Please look for someone who can trust and tell her or him. It is better to say it yourself than one day it is discovered. You will be embarrassed becaause you have been all through knowing what is happening. Face the reality before it is too late.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
2 Nov 11
People have secrets. I do not think there is one person who can say that he/she has no secret. We all keep something to ourselves. even our daily lives, when we do not tell what we did today, or what we read.. i think that is some sort of a secret already especially if it was asked of us and we left some details unsaid...
@svjomboy (873)
• Philippines
2 Nov 11
hello chiyosan, yes i agree that everyone has a secret. Secrets that sometimes could make upset when you want to confess it. so better keep that secret forever and forget.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
6 Nov 11
i don't think so. i mean people do have secrets... its not like its only me or you that have secret and that it would make us unhappy about life? nope, i do not agree on that... even if we do keep something to ourselves, i think that it won't hurt our lives as you have said to the extent of us not being able to find happiness. unless of course if our secret is very grave and that we have hurt someone, or have tried to hurt someone or really did some bad things...
@anhhai123 (161)
• Vietnam
1 Nov 11
Everyone have secret and we have to keep it in your heart. If you love someone but she does not love you, you have to keep your love for yourself in secrect. Maybe you will not be happy but you are comfortable with her. In future, you think back your action and you will feel happy because you didnot say your love to her. Why? just because that is love.
@svjomboy (873)
• Philippines
2 Nov 11
hello anhhail123, wow that sweet of you. well everyone has secret but some of secret its hard to explode especially it will connected to our family. Its hard with the situation and its hard to deal with. Well i already confess to the GOD. so i feel okey now.
@vasumathi (436)
• India
29 Oct 11
It is all about the nature of the secret you maintain. If the secret is going to create a problem in somebody's life. Then i think you will find difficulty in maintaining the secret
@svjomboy (873)
• Philippines
29 Oct 11
hello vasumathi yes the secret i have is very difficult even here i can share but im sure if i open everybody they will get angry with me, so i better keep secret at all.
• United States
29 Oct 11
I believe everyone has some secrets. I pray a lot, so I pretty much feel like sharing my secrets with God is like sharing them with a friend. I don't have many secrets though. I don't really carry a lot of shame. I feel like you should be open about everything. Most people feel ashamed about things that they shouldn't even feel ashamed for...So I'm just open about a lot of things. Therapy is good for that as well.
@aquacan (216)
• China
31 Oct 11
Good day, friend. Secrets will turn into burden in life. So we would feel tired and unhappy as days go on. But we always have ways to relieve the burden. We can choose to live a simple life. Just don't let these secrets take control of your happiness. Actually, if that secret isn't a secret any more, we would feel much more relaxed. So just tell your friends who you can rely on or parents. You can even choose to forget that secret, or at least for a while. That would help a lot. Everyone comes into depression from time to time. But life still goes on. We can choose to live it either in a bitter way or in a happy way. It's up to you. So just relax and there's nothing that we can't figure out.