Do you believe that no matter what you do, you are destined for one person?

October 31, 2011 2:31am CST
I had encountered a lot of relationships when I was still single. But I end up to my grader best friend. No matter how I ignore him, he was always there. Well, after 10 years we settled. We had two sons and still going strong. I always wished for somebody else to be marry with but it just did not happen.
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• Philippines
31 Oct 11
I believe in this. I believe that our life has already been planned out by the Almighty God even before we are born. All the things we do, the choices we make, all of those have been chosen in advance by God for us. I believe in destiny. I believe in fate. So no matter how much we push away someone, if you two are really for each other, then in the end you will be together.
• Philippines
31 Oct 11
Yes, I also believed that our destiny had been written even before the day we we're born.We have choices and we can make a choice but at the end our destiny takes place.It just like getting to somewhere,there is an easier way and there is a longer way.You have the choice which way to take,but at the end ,we'll end up to our destination.Only God knows about our destiny,and we should trust Him because He is the best planner.
@karyl15 (251)
• Philippines
1 Jul 12
that love story is great. i wish i will have that kind of friend right now, so that i won't be hurt again.it is better to have a friend than a boyfriend that is just not honest with you.
@mykmari_08 (2464)
• Philippines
29 May 12
I guess you're really destined to spend your life with your grader best friend. I do believe in destiny. While you are destined to be together, it may also be a fact that you were never destined to be with any one of your previous relationships. It is very often that I hear old folks saying that whatever one does, even if he or she does everything to keep his or her partner - even to the extent of engaging in gunshot wedding; sooner or later the relationship would soon lose its spark if it was not meant to be. Similarly, several factors might come in play in a relationship, including distance, family, finances, or even war. There are a lot of love stories already told that in spite of these ingredients, two destined people may still find themselves together despite the odds. On a personal note, I feel it quite romantic and seemingly a novel-worthy material with a love story such as yours. I guess I could assume that it was a time-tested relationship, noting the 10 years you mentioned. Friendship is absolutely an amazing factor and I'd say you're lucky enough. I do hope you both stay in love with each other and your years together would still add up to decades more. Best of luck and regards to your 2 sons.
@vanila (491)
• Israel
11 Jan 12
Yes, I think so. No wonder the population of the world consists almost equally of men and women (48-49 percent men, facing 51-52 percent women). "Every person has is one, closing a sircle with", like saying a song in my country.
• India
8 Nov 11
Hi, It's certain that we will meet many persons and have to be with our soul mate finally. One question we need to ask our self are we with our soul mate or not? do you have this question in your mind ? then person with whom you are now is not your soul mate!!! because if you are with your soul mate then this question will not arrive :) This theory which we come across in most of the films is fictitious. The truth is you will live your life happily ever after with your soul mate and our soul mate will be the one whom we think/decide who is he/she :):) It all depends on us. We should feel sorry for whom with we are now but we need to give it a try to think of him/her as a soul mate. :) This approach would make life beautiful :)
@smikin (18)
9 Nov 11
YES!.. we are all destined for one person but its for us to decide if we make that person our destined one.
• Philippines
31 Oct 11
Hi sasaliot. You are lucky to marry your friend. At least you have proven how loyal he is to you. I am still single and I don't know if I have somebody or anybody that I can think of as my destiny. Before, I have this silly feeling towards a friend of mine and I thought that the feeling was mutual. However, I learned that he wanted another girl. I then realized that I was just pensive and wanting something that was not really there. I did not hurt much because the feeling was just a realization and that I was just in love with the thought. I really don't have a deep feeling towards him or it just easily waned when I learned that he's attracted to another woman. Well, I don't closes my door to love. But I am not keen or hard set on finding that one person because I believe that if there really is somebody for me, then love will find a way. Good luck to your relationship and I hope your friendship and love to each other would get stronger until old age. Always be in-love with each other.
• India
31 Oct 11
These kindaa things differs culture wise. Considering our community it is not possible to marry more than a time or not even having relationships while you are single. It is not strictly prohibited but considered as crime to have relationship when you are single. I have one girlfriend which is secret.