You have a hate list?

Hi,didi~ I usually don't hate people or things 'cause there is one saying I find very true,"no need to punish yourself because of someone else's terrible traits or misbehaviors" I do find something that annoys me deeply sometimes.And lies and betrayal is on the top list.I can understand some people saying white lies because they are looking out for me,but if not,then I will get mad.I hate betrayal because betrayal sucks.It hurts people who believe in the goodness of people.And I hate people who jump queues or break the traffic rules just because they think they are in a hurry.Be patient!!!Other than that,I may get angry at certain things when I feel down sometimes,but usually I let those unhappy experiences go away quite quickly. Anyway,cheers~And have a nice day~

hi didi OMG! That is a really big list... Just wondering where do you find so much time to hate... I am amazed and would love to know a couple of tricks Personally, I dont hate anything or anyone... I love everything that the world has for me and the Lord has decided for me Also, I believe that life is just for once... and is short... so there is no time for hate... I have only love and smiles to offer (and somedays I am low, but I dont hate)

That was an interesting read! I don't hate cell phones, I just dislike the fact that people who shouldn't have access to my number have gotten it and call me - or at least the NUMBER and ask for someone ELSE. I don't answer unknown, unavailable, or any number I don't recognize. For that reason if I GIVE my number to someone else, I ask them to text me first and put who they are, then I can store them in my address book and when they DO call, their name comes up. Otherwise I let it go to voicemail and see if the numbnut leaves a message. Meat... so you're a vegetarian? I don't think anybody should force someone to eat meat, but make sure you don't make a meat eater uncomfortable with anything you say lol. It would be a bit unappealing to be out to dinner and have the person I was with make some comment about my steak like 'I can't believe you're eating that, how gross' (and trust me, some vegetarians do that without thinking.) I eat almost everything so I'm unlikely to make that comment unless you're eating cow intestine or something. I might just have to avoid looking at it but I'll try to not say anything negative lol. Shopping... ugh. Recently I had a really BAD experience and then right on the heels of that, a very GOOD experience. I think that if I go somewhere and know approx what I'm looking for and I ask an associate for help and they are helpful so I'm not spending way too long in the store wandering around like a kid who lost their parent, it will probably work out better than if I know what i'm looking for but I'm pressed for time and the sales associates are rude and don't help me plus there's 10 billion other people in the store getting in my way. I tend to do a lot of online shopping, especially when there is free shipping. I can't complain about jeans - I live in jeans or workout clothes I doubt anybody likes liars or lies. This ties in with the promises thing. I always tell my daughter that you never make a promise if you aren't going to keep it - therefore many times I say 'we'll see' or 'ask me later' because I will never promise her something if I don't know for sure that I will do it or it will happen. If I DO promise something, then trust me, it will happen, no matter what I have to do or what I have to do to other people lol. I hold her to the promises she makes too, by reminding her how rotten she'd feel if I didn't follow through. The next few cover people and some of the dumb mistakes people make... I don't usually spend any time with people who might think I'm dumb because they usually realize how dumb they were to assume that right away. Some of them backpeddle because for some odd reason they still want to get to know me, but that's my clue to walk away. I love to meet people but the chances you will hit it off with everyone you meet are slim. The more people you meet, yes, the more likely you will meet a lot of dumb people or people you wouldn't want to be trapped in an elevator with for 10 hours, but you also have a greater chance of meeting someone cool, so I still put myself out there for that reason. When people are sad, what CAN others say? I'm sorry? Talk to me about it? At the risk of sounding trite, the last thing you want to do is make someone who is already sad feel WORSE by agreeing with them that things WON'T get better. That's why so many people tell you it will. Life is not static, things always get better or worse. If things are truly staying exactly the same, then there is something wrong because that isn't the law of nature. It might be stable because the ups and downs are small but nothing is ever rock bottom horrible forever or top of the mountain excellent forever. I'm also with you on the whole thing of people assuming things based on your appearance only. Stupid. STUPID STUPID STUPID. But it's a good way to peg and avoid people who are that shallow from the beginning. Yup, no is no. Not maybe. Not 'try to convince me otherwise'. Not 'yes, drag me there anyway in my robe and slippers after I said no no no I am sick and I look like crap'. If you don't have love, NO relationship is going to work. However, you're right that it does need other parts to function correctly. Pressure schrmessure. Just tell em - your expectations are not my expectations and the only ones I am required to fulfill in this lifetime are mine. Good day. Meh. For short or even longer distances, car. I don't like traveling with a bunch of strangers and dealing with inconvenience like someone else's time table or route. A train wouldn't be so bad for a mid distance, something that took an hour or two - IF it were cheaper and more convenient than driving. If someone makes a decision FOR me that they had no right to make, I'll find them and knock them down a notch or two. AND I will undo the decision, whatever it was because it is invalid. People who 'think' they know best ONLY know best about themselves and they get kicked to the curb as well. Usually those people get removed from my life too, and they've usually been given fair warning so they know what's coming if they commit either of those two cardinal sins. I'm married so I also don't like other married people going about acting like they are single. Not only is it icky, it is terribly disrespectful, not only to their spouse but to any married people they propose to, hit on, flirt with, etc. It's also a lie, and they are pretending to be something they are not - which clearly makes them not someone you'd want to be involved with anyway. As far as the guys who try to buy you - it becomes clear pretty fast that it doesn't work, so if they have no other reason to hang around, they'll go away. If they don't, there might be more to it than that. Just my experience. A couple of mine - people who believe age is attached to maturity - it isn't. Also, do not assume just because someone looks young that they are 1. young 2. unmarried. I don't appreciate it when people you KNOW can speak English start conversing in front of you in another language. As much as I try to believe they aren't hiding something from me, it feels that way, especially if they do it regularly. People who never acknowledge you first - you have to speak to them first or they pretty much ignore you. People who make plans with you and then either don't show up or call you that day to tell you why they can't. Planning things is tough, we are all grown with spouses and kids and whatnot. It's not like we're all 17 and can just cut school and get in the car and drive down to LA for a concert and stay at some hotel split between 4 people on a whim. We have to arrange for child care or school or activities and pick ups and coordinate with the other person's child care or school and activities and pick ups as well as any plans you or they might have with family or with work or whatever. Extremely frustrating. Oh... and I really hate when someone assumes you are 'from somewhere else', despite the fact that you speak nothing but english, have no accent whatsoever, etc etc. No, you lunatic, you see where I'm standing, here, in front of you? Well this is where I'm from. Where are YOU from? Outer space?

You have so many a hate list. You might think people get surprised to read your posting. I didn't think so. If you could make tons of a hate list, I am interfered with the list. I expected that you would write an inspiring list or good things from your life. Those list are useless to be heard in contradictory to law of attraction book I ever read about. There is a don't say no or don't, because it could give other people bad influence. Don't use the no word in your life, without your thought could make your positive thought became worse.

Hello didi, That's a real long list! Let me not become one more of your hate by offering unsolicited advice on the desirability or otherwise of too long a list! LoL Nevertheless, mine is a short one and to share how I manage to keep it short [if anyone cared, that is :P ] I have decide to stay away from things that annoy me. So what remain are some core attributes because of my belief in my value system. 1. Top of the list: I hate deceit of any kind 2. Uncivilized behavior in public places [includes a large no. of issues] 3. Forcing me against my dislikes 4. People [especially at work] borrowing or asking for money I constantly endeavor shrugging off negative aspects so that I build on the positives. Thanks for asking.

i am one person who knows grateful, happy to get along, little as i don't like,but certainly, i don't like betrayal. :-)