These days my foster mom and I quarrel quite a lot
By K31
@keihimekawa (2007)
Philippines
November 2, 2011 7:24pm CST
And this happened again just this morning. Just to inform fellow myLotters, I am living with my real mom and foster mom under one roof. My real mom and foster mom got into a fight and over breakfast, my foster mom told me that she was gonna cook something for my lunch. I said sure and it was already 7am. My call time at work is at 8am and I still saw her washing stuffs. I told her that I'll run late if she kept washing those things and I told her that I can't bring that container since it's too long and won't fit in my bag. My mistake is that I said those words to her in an agitated manner (since I am running late). She got furious and started shouting at me, telling that I'm getting disrespectful of her while she was in the midst of an argument with my real mom.
As soon as I arrive at my work, I sent her a message a text message saying that I arrived at work safely and I'm sorry for my attitude earlier. She wasn't able to respond so I called home. As soon as she heard my voice from the other line, she quickly snapped "what do you want?" and I just told her I arrived at work then she mumbled something about "so what?" then banged the phone down. I called again since the main reason why I called is because I want to ask her is she still needs load (cellphone load) or not. The second time I called, she gave me the same angry voice and when I asked her if she needs the load, the said "I don't care! I don't need to call anyone!" and banged the phone down.
I got so agitated that I ended up banging the phone I used and in the midst that my office mate friends are around me, I cried real hard. it's frustrating enough that both my moms, both important in my life is having a huge argument at home, my mom for some stupid, simple reason got so angry at me.
Sorry for the rant. I just can't keep this in anymore 

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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
3 Nov 11
I'm sorry to hear that, kei. You must really have felt so terrible. It feels like that your situation is so complicated, living under one roof with two moms. I hope things are okay now between you and your foster mom, and between your two moms.
@keihimekawa (2007)
• Philippines
4 Nov 11
Me and my foster mom's ok now. Me and my real mom's ok too. They both apologized to me at different time last night but my real mom and foster mom's still bickering like crazy. Even this morning before I left home. I just turned deaf to their arguments.
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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
5 Nov 11
I guess it will be up to them to settle their disagreements or whatever. Glad to hear everything's okay with you and both of them. 

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