Happy to be single right now

I agree patience is a virtue so glad I got my fair share too and them some.Your time and money will never be wasted if given to that true one you waited for. It is simpler perhaps to be single but not always better you do miss things and you do still get lonely and want romance and commitment and so on. You only get these things from that true person though so that virtue may just be worth it's costs. Thanks,A.B.

I must agree and disagree here, I agree that patience pays. Yet, I do think woman know how they should be treated better by men. They just don't know or understand how to get this from them yet so they suffer in silence until either they can take no more or they fight back somehow. You need some common grounds first to get along well. I don't mean the same cultures or beliefs either. I mean what you like and enjoy to do when you are not working what you like to do as hobbies things in life you enjoy. Do you like to collect massive amounts of old antiques and they are everywhere, but your wife just hates this. Well, that's what I mean you need other things you both can do together so you don't do this one big crazy thing like the antique collections just to make her mad since she won't go hunting & fishing or the football games with you anymore. You need other things, so you had better have some or you will be in for a world of pain possibly. I have seen this first hand too many times now to not fully believe it too. Thanks, A.B.

If this is working, you probably are so right about it then. We have so many other fulfilling relationships within our lives this could seem almost selfish to add more that is just making all those great ones in our lives uncomfortable to be around since it is so very clear that it just won't work at all. Good for you I say, I am there with ya too. Thanks,A.B.

I know what you mean here, I have been in a relationship before and just miserable. Thinking, why am I still doing this to myself and this other person we don't really even care or even have much in common with each other at all. I would always wish I was single again how happy and more carefree I am then, until I became single and saw other couples then I was sad again. Now I found, I just have to focus more on myself. My interests, what I want from my life if I become the selfish one in the relationship I will always be a happy single lady. Men will not tolerate this for very long, unless they truly share the same interests as you already. This is what I want in my life too. Somebody I have more in common with less possibility for arguments this way I think. Thanks,A.B.