Can you consider your personality as an outgoing?

@mayrah (1144)
United States
November 6, 2011 10:29am CST
Outgoing people are those who feel very comfortable being around a lot of people. I consider my self an outgoing person. Co'z I love hanging out with friends and I can easily get along with when my friends introduce to her other friends it comes easy for me to talk to them exchange conversation related to my interest. But I am kinda moody sometimes, if I'm in a bad mood I don't easily interact with others. But most of the time I'm friendly.When it comes to conversation, I'm easily get bored when the conversation is about history or politics. So I hate boring conversation. I just love talk about everyday experiences, about life, love and successful experiences or failure. I never met people I didn't like, but the disadvantage is I easily trust people and It took hard for me to reject a request or say no to someone.How about you? What's your personality? Are you friendly or unfriendly most of the time?
15 responses
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
6 Nov 11
I get along well with people who I got to know on first day but only if we have the same interest. Other than that I feel awkward being around with someone who has nothing to share with. I don't consider myself an outgoing person because I just don't like to be in a crowded place and be comfortable around a lot of people. I admire my brother (and you as well) for being so outgoing... my brother, wherever you take him and wherever he goes he always wil have and will gain friends.
@mayrah (1144)
• United States
6 Nov 11
well thanks, just give it a try and later on you'll find yourself comfortable doing it. when I was younger I was so shy that I hate talking to a lot of people and just like you I hate being in a crowded place and I can't speak in front of a lot of people. But as I grown up things change, I push myself to be more comfortable talking to different people. In our church I was sometimes assign to be the speaker.
@Angelwriter (1954)
• United States
8 Nov 11
I'm friendly. I try not to be mean to people. But, I'm not outgoing, and I don't think you have to be outgoing to be friendly. I'm an introvert. I don't like crowds and I've always had a small circle of friends. I'm also very quiet most of the time. I suppose people who don't know me might think I'm unfriendly - especially since I'm more quiet and nervous around people I don't know- but I think most, when they get to know me realize I'm not really unfriendly.
@greenline (14838)
• Canada
7 Nov 11
Well, I suppose, I have to say "yes". I have to work and communicate with many people, people of different countries and cultures too. That is part of my job. So, it is very much necessary to be open-minded and free to communicate, business and personal.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
7 Nov 11
Sort of, not completely because it depends on the mood so I guess I'm not a natural outgoing person so if you think in that way, no I'm not but in so many occasions I wasn't shy either so...sort of :D Happy MyLotting!!
• United States
7 Nov 11
I would consider myself outgoing to an extent. I can be pretty loud around those I'm comfortable with...But when it comes to new people, I'm pretty reserved. I don't trust a lot of people, so I stay pretty shut until I get to know them, then I'm out of control! I'm just sort of quiet around people I don't know.
@almond24 (1248)
• Hungary
7 Nov 11
I don't consider myself outgoing, I'm rather shy and I don't talk much when a lot of people are around me. I'm friendly but I don't think i can draw others' attention easily, so when others talk i usually just listen. Of course i can and love to talk when it's something i'm interested in though.
@JUSTBLACK (101)
• Lagos, Nigeria
6 Nov 11
i can choose to be any of all bt most time i feel introverted is safe for me
@lisa0502 (1724)
• Canada
6 Nov 11
I would consider myself a very shy and quiet person upfront. If I get to know you then I tend to talk more. I am quite reserved and do not trust easily. I am quite friendly to almost everyone. I think that as soon as someone crosses me then I get very angry and am not so friendly. It does not matter if I know you or not if you do me or my family wrong then I will not treat you with the same resect because then it is not deserved. I find though here on mylot I talk more freely because I am not talking to anyone face to face.
• United States
6 Nov 11
You just describe me to the T. I am the same way. I am outgoing and love to be loud. I can go to a bar and not know anyone and walk out knowing all. I trust everyone and naive, when someone lies to me about something. I hate talking about history or politics.
@jazzyrae (1745)
• United States
6 Nov 11
I am friendly but I am very shy. I do not like being in large groups of people I jet fell awkward I'm friendly but I just hate being social sometimes.
@iuliuxd (4453)
• Romania
6 Nov 11
I liked being in large groups when i was a teenager,people liked to be near me because i always had a good joke to tell and we were laughing a lot.Then i had to make a big choice and i and i choosed to stay away from people.Sometimes i miss the old times but to be honest i don`t think it matters too much if you are an outgoing person or an introvert.You are lucky if you have someone who needs you every day.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
6 Nov 11
No I don't like to hang around with many people. I like to hear myself think and I get tired of a lot of talking. I also don't have the need to be in the company of other people whole time. Once in a while is good enough and if I want to talk to someone I can go over for a few minutes. For me it doesn't matter or changes my behaviour or level of interaction if I am in a great mood or bad mood. I always found it hard to say no, I easily volunteered but since I changed that (have to check my scedule first or ask if it's okay) it's way easier plus I attrack way less abusers. I am friendly if people are friend to me. I treat others the way they treat me. If I am not interested in them there is no reason to be unfriendly either.
• Turkey
6 Nov 11
I'm afraid I'm a little bit introverted :) I don't like crowds or crowds' attention on me. I used to have a lot of friends in the past but then suddenly I moved to a new town, started a career there and my life changed and I lost all of them..
@curmont (343)
• United States
6 Nov 11
I am also alot like you, I love to talk and I like to meet new people. I get along easily with people I think because I have always worked in customer service and have had the opportunity to speak to people from all walks of life. I also have trouble saying no especially if a person seems sincere in their request for my help, I have been taken advantage of and used more than my fair safe and that used to really bother me, I really was beginning to believe that nice guys finish last. I often thought about forcing myself to change my own personality to not make myself such an easy victim of people who choose to use my kindness against me but instead I choose to remain true to myself and believe that I will get my blessings one day for all the good I have put into the world. If people choose to take advantage of my kindness they will have to answer for their life one day and I will enjoy my blessings in the afterlife I was promised
• Philippines
6 Nov 11
I am an out going person too, i love being with my friends. They even find me a bubly person. I can easily get along with other people, i love to talk any topic except history but politics is ok, in fact i find politics a very colorful discussion. I don't choose who should be my friends, but i know who were the fake ones and who are the real ones.