Do you ever see that the more you help the worse things get
By amybcraft77
@amybcraft77 (314)
November 10, 2011 2:38pm CST
Some people really hate a so called "do gooder" or a helping hand of any kind. Weather of a helping hand not a hand out some person's pride always wins out and you must be doing this for something in return to your own self somehow. You are always the bad guy no matter what happens here. Either you are looking to be a social climber or you are just out too late at night and need to not help at all during the day time hours since you could never understand there process of business there at all. Just forget about helping out in any way with there personal home,health,or any relationship matters since once again the finger always ends up pointed right back at you in all ways.
1 response
@anusha2128 (886)
• India
11 Nov 11
Once this happens in my friends life that made me very sad and thought me a lesson.She used to try to help her family very much but always they reflected back to her in a bad way.
@amybcraft77 (314)
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12 Nov 11
Thanks so very much for sharing, and this is very sad and hard to take if nothing is ever right or quite enough some how. Leads to depressions and anxieties sometimes even worse too. Mine are trying to be more understanding and patient with me now a days. I still catch us falling short at times though and having to remind them once again. "Hey look you know I'm not perfect so stop trying to get that." thanks, A.B.
