The bad apple

November 11, 2011 12:57am CST
Do you ever have the sense that some others may be trying to just play you off so much as the really bad apple just because they themselves really feel this way inside and are trying so very hard for nobody to ever notice this. Perhaps they feel this way but really are not that bad either so things keep getting bigger and nastier and blown out of perportion until you really cannot stand to even be near or around this person in the fear that it will just keep getting worse some more once again. Like a real rock and a hard place here you are always on egg shells and nervous too around them. This may be neither person's fault at all too you just are too opposite in too many ways to come together at all for that point in time anyway you may even need a medium person between you to ever even get along at all. Somebody who is a complete out of the situation and knows nothing of it at all would be most helpful so all can be natural about things as possible here. These situations do come up within my life in case you didn't guess already. I find the more the merrier here too is always a great idea somehow. There will be people in both person's corners so everybody wins here in the end. Is there ever really a true bad apple, I believe there are yes but this is a very rare thing there are more good then bad. Some people are just judging too strongly against a perfect angel saint, and the bad evil,little,devil. Is usually the case in which I have always witnessed and the person who has less in this world and is not as strong,rich,or,pretty too had better watch there back in these situations as well. The hunters do prey on the week quite often I'm afraid too. Thanks,A.B.
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@joystick (1675)
28 Jan 12
I think that there will always be people that are bad allples in life and play one person off against another.Even friends try to play one off against the other.When friends break up, there will always be another friend that will tell you that such and such said some thing about you, question you have to ask yourself is why they waited till now to tell you.