Some of us will just naturally always have troubles here

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Since I was a very small child I have been told very sternly children are to be seen and not heard! If you can't say something nice don't say anything at all and many other things along these kind of lines. Then I know for a sure fact this kind of up bringing has brought about many a long winded conversations on my part, being overly curios about much too many things and some other rather embarrassing times when loved one's just had to tell me I dare you to be quiet for just 5 min. and they even timed while doing this tough task for me as well. Being very overly opinionated and out spoken has some virtue sure but some major down slides as well too. You tend to drive the people closest to you a little mad at times. You even tend to drive yourself a little mad at times too forgetting this so called "place" you are always supposed to know that you are in. Some of us never knew are place from the very start and now that we are older we really hardly care much to start it up all of the sudden either. So on it goes, this I have seen with so many woman of my age and generation today too in your mid to late thirties we are in a bit of a struggle but very excited and happy to be there anyway. You see we are comfortable this way and in a strange way you could even say this is "Our Place" now. Then we are even a bit just and proud to have finally found this as well and will most likely never give it up to anybody or place or thing ever too. This place finding can become a real life obsession if you really think about it too. Are you the man of the house or not is a place, are you the big sister here or not another place,are you the manager here or not a place, are you the property of your husband body and soul a place, If something is simply a place a person can easily move on to another place any time he or she sees fit. This is where the problem of being in this place does come in for so many of us too. You are put in one place while the other person is not this is very wrong for so many different reason's one should never be put any where unless this is truly what they desire and want for there own futures. other wise you are riding very closely to slave and owner relationship one can put there car any place as well too Thanks, A.B.