Becoming a Doctor

United States
November 13, 2011 2:15am CST
How much time,energy, and money do you think it takes to become a doctor? My husband is strongly considering going to school to be a specialist. Do you have any family members or friends who have been able to successfully do this? What would be your suggestions for endeavoring to go to school for some time to reach this goal?
11 responses
@inu1711 (5285)
• Romania
13 Nov 11
Hello Dominique, When I was a child, I remember everybody wanted to become a doctor in my class. As time passed, they changed their plans and some became accountants, engineers, teachers or policemen but none of them became a doctor. Strange, huh? Maybe they were taught well, I'd say. I have two aunts that are doctors. All I can say is that both of them worked (and still work) really hard to become a doctor and to prepare themselves to be good professional. Being a doctor means you are never going to stop learning. You have to refresh your knowledge and to gain new knowledge every day. This is a profession where you must be up to date everyday. One of my aunts is in her 60s now and she still learns. She's an allergist and even if she retired from her main job in a public hospital, she still works at her private surgery. She loves what she does and I think she will practice this job for all her life. The other aunt is my age and she doesn't like being a doctor. She wanted so much to become a doctor but now she's not too enthusiastic about this. She says there is too much bureaucracy in this profession and she doesn't have time to practice what she learnt in medical school. She has too many paper work to do and she would gladly change her profession.
@inu1711 (5285)
• Romania
15 Nov 11
It really is frustrating. She seriously thought about changing her profession, you know? Has your husband decided anything already?
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• United States
14 Nov 11
I think perhaps as your classmates grew up they probably gained interest in other areas, not to mention that there aren't that many people who would love to go to school for such a long time. I'm glad that your one aunt enjoys being a doctor. I'm sorry to hear that your other aunt doesn't. It would be very difficult to go to school for such a long time only to find out later in life that we don't like it. I'm sure she is right about what all goes on in the profession of being a doctor. Dealing with all of that would be frustrating.
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@mariahhh (1328)
• United Arab Emirates
14 Nov 11
Becoming a doctor was my dream when I was a child. But as I grow older, I realized that I am not really suited for that position, and Biology and other sciences are not my cup of tea. I think studying to become a Doctor will take a lot of time and money. But it will not matter if that is what you really want and if you really love to be a doctor. No one from the family is a doctor so I am quite not sure how long will it take to reach that goal.
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• United States
14 Nov 11
Yeah when going to school to be a doctor there are a lot of science classes that a person has to take. And science is not for me either. My husband he is really smart and I know that he can do all the studying that is required, but other things will have to give. Going to school for that long requires a lot of self sacrifice in order to be able to keep up with a person's studies.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
13 Nov 11
When I was younger that was what I wanted to do with my life and for that reason I was a biology major for my undergraduate degree. After I'd completed my undergraduate degree it was going to take four more years of school to get my medical license and then it would have depended on the specialty that I chose as to how much longer it would take for me to be able to start my own practice. The main thing that kept me from getting my medical license was the expense that was involved in it.
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• United States
14 Nov 11
I agree with you that trying to go to school to be a doctor takes a lot of time. How much would it have cost to get your medical license? I think that by the time a person is all done with schooling to be a doctor student loans and everything will add up too a lot.
@DoctorDidi (7018)
• India
13 Nov 11
I am myself a homeopath. My husband is a M.B.B.S, attached to a state run hospital. All my sister-in-laws are M.B.B.S doctors except one. My father was also M.B.B.S doctor and was attached to a state run hospital. The back ground of my husband's family is that one of his sisters and one of his brothers are M.B.B.S doctors, brother was a high ranking Central Government Officer and sister was posted in a teaching hospital in Kolkata, West Bengal.
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• United States
14 Nov 11
That is great that there is so much medicial history with your family. I'm sure that you and your family have benefited greatly from your schooling and have gained a lot of skills. It really shows how hard working and determined your family is for so many of you to be able to accomplish what you have.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
14 Nov 11
There are two doctors in my family,my aunt and her husband.I think this is really a good job and could save many people's life.So i determined to be a doctor since i was a child.Anyway,it is good to know many ways to live a healthier life.Have a nice day.
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• United States
14 Nov 11
I agree that being doctors save many lives. They also are able to help many different individuals with various conditions. To help them live a better life. That is very neat that you have an aunt and uncle who are doctors. I don't have anyone who is a doctor in my family yet. I hope that you are doing well with your goals to be a doctor.
@lijoos (346)
• India
13 Nov 11
its a big task and i dont want to be a doctor.
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• United States
14 Nov 11
I strongly agree with you. I first off couldn't handle the education load that is involved in going to school for such a long time. Not to mention I wouldn't be able to handle all the skills that are needed to be a good doctor. It just wouldn't be a good career for me.
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
13 Nov 11
Hi Dominique, it will take many years and at least a year of housemanship in the hospital. I think your husband can consider working in the hospital first, and then decide on what to do later. There are many jobs in the hospital that do not need medical qualification. Some jobs do not need a degree but require a diploma in medical discipline. Those people taking the X-ray and blood pressure need nursing diploma. I think it is better to know the different job opportunities before taking up a degree course.
• United States
14 Nov 11
Yeah I agree with you. There are many different areas a person can go in. Right now my husband wants to study to be a dermatologist. But as he starts schooling he can decide whether he wants to pursue something other than a diploma in medicine. If there is something else that he decides to pursue it could be less student loan money and less years for education.
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
13 Nov 11
I have family members who are doctors and they have different specializations. I don't really know how much it costs to complete medical school but I know it's a lot. I believe they vary per country, though. I'm not really sure now, but a decade ago, it would take another 4 years plus a year of internship after you've completed your 4-year college degree. Assuming it hasn't changed, if your husband really is decided to pursue this, then both of you should be prepared for the long haul. I mean, there would be times wherein he really has to devote his time to studying. It would really eat up quite a bit of the time he spends with your family. Well, that's what I heard.
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• United States
14 Nov 11
Yeah I'm not sure exactly how much it would cost to go to school for that long but I'm sure it's costly. I agree it will take quit a bit of time for him to go to school for this long stretch of time. I can imagine how stressful it will be for him and our family during this time period. Because the fact that the schooling itself will be so costly, and to be able to maintain our bills while he goes to school, and not being able to spend as much time together. But we will have to take it one step at a time.
• Romania
13 Nov 11
My mom has finished nurse's school.
• United States
16 Nov 11
I'm sure that you are very proud of your mom. Going to school to be a nurse is a lot of hard work. It requires time and dedication to your studies. I'm sure your mom as well appreciated everyone's help while you accomplished this goal.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
13 Nov 11
How much money it will cost depends on where you will have your education. How much time/years it will take depends on how smart you are and if you are able to do 2 study years in 1 year time. How much time you have to invest as a doctor in your patients depends on the kind of doctor you are/want to be. I think a good doctor should live for his patients. If you live that way there is no time to have a family as well since they will always be on the last place. If you are a doctor in my country you can work for 2-3 hours a day. You work from 8am till 4pm and that's it. Once in a while you are standby in a weekend and are only 1 hour in the building in case of need. Nobody can call you directly since you won't answer the phone and if you ever should visit someone at home they will drive you over (you are not allowed to drive yourself). Specialist takes longer. First you have to be a normal (we call it: house) doctor. After that you can specialize for what you like this will take some years at all. I don't know how old our husband is but perhaps he should ask himself if he is able to study for 8-12 years and after that won't be one of the oldest who has to listen to orders of doctors younger as he is with way more experiences.
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• United States
14 Nov 11
I agree that it will take quit a lot of commitment for him to go to school this long. He is very smart and is a disciplined person when it comes to going after something he wants. It will take him 8-12 years to be able to get through his schooling. That is a lot of time. We have a little girl. This is something that he really wants to do so I'm trying to be supportive. But like you mentioned there really isn't anytime for anything else when a person has to go to school for that amount of time. In order to get the most out of your schooling and to be able to keep up he will have to devote really all of his time to his studies. He plans to start his premed courses next year. It's something that he really wants to do so we will just have to take it one step at a time.
• Indonesia
13 Nov 11
my friend is still studying to became a doctor. he usually not going home because there are task to do in his college. but he gonna be a good doctor because of his own power and i proud to be his friend.
• United States
14 Nov 11
I'm glad that your friend is working hard to become a doctor. I'm sure that your friend appreciates your friendship while he endeavors to work hard at this. I would be proud of him to with all the hard work that goes into become a doctor. I'm sure he will be happy to be done with all the studying he has to do.
• Indonesia
15 Nov 11
yeah that's right. glad to have friend like him.