I just hate those people using subjective opinion toward others

I hate those types of people, too... It's one thing to state their opinion but just blatantly start accusing other people with no facts to back it up... There was someone like that at my work, too... I was coming out of the break room one day she was walking in... I can hear her start talking about how rude people are & can't clean up after themselves... Apparently, there were some trash left on the table... I sorta had a feeling she was talking about me... About 1/2 hour later, manager calls me up & started saying something about cleaning up after myself... I looked at him & said, "ummm... Whatever that person said was a complete lie because I walked into the break room to clock in for the day... I haven't even look at the table so naturally didn't notice the trash...". Apparently, that lady told him she saw me walking out of he break room & it was me who made the mess... I even confronted her about it & she tried to deny it was her but of course when the manager said, "yeah, you were the one who told me about it... You mean yo didn't see him do it & now you're making me a liar?"... She did. Know what to say... A lot of the imes, if you confront hem about it & force them to back up their story, they'll usually back up...

this is happening all the time and it's hard to be always objective,you think? everyone will be tiny self-centered and disregard the other aspect.what we have to do is to see it clearly and forget it,Don't let it lying in your heart,be positive with that

While I understand that what you say can be annoying, I don´t think it´s enough reason to hate a person. You can answer sweetly and a little loud that you did not do do it and that how can she accuse anyone if she hasn´t seen the culprit (not you). But don´t make your life miserable by listening to such small and dumb accusations. It´s not worth it.

Yes, i understand that will be our normal reaction especially if the accusation is unjustifiable and not true. It also happens to me sometime, and so what i did is that i just take it as a learning responsibility for me and cautious next time to be careful. Rather than end up with argument and fights or whatever it will just ruin the relationship towards the other person. There is no point of pushing my justification wherein other person is not listening or neither convinced. Take it in a positive way and not negatively so that you will not end up your day with frustrations and hatred. Have patience and be forgiving... the truth will always prevail...God do the justification if we cannot.

Yes, i understand that will be our normal reaction especially if the accusation is unjustifiable and not true. It also happens to me sometime, and so what i did is that i just take it as a learning responsibility for me and cautious next time to be careful. Rather end up with argument and fights or whatever it will just ruin the relationship towards the person. There is no point of pushing my justification wherein other person is not listening or neither convinced. Take it in a positive way so that you will end up your day with frustrations and hatred. Be patience... the truth will always prevail...God do the justification if we cannot.

I think it's better you to tell straight to her face that you did not do it, and if she insists ask her to prove it then. I can sense that lady doesn't like you that's why she easily accused you of something she did not actually see you doing.

For me yes they accuse you to being one not good because they are better good then you that's the reason why they done it in your way of life but they follow what Satan do in this time.

What a lot of anger and hate about a empty cup and someone who makes a remark about it or in this case "worse" is pointing at you. I think these things happen whole time. It's hard always to be objective and if we are irritated it's mostly because we bump into the same things time after time. If you are always the one who is cleaning up the mess of someone else it's a never ending story. I can imagine it's irritating and you start making remarks at it sooner or later. I find it normal too that everybody cleans up his/her own mess. And yes it's possible someone just forgot about that cup, perhaps wanted an extra one and something came in between. Might be you were also the only one that lady could accuse at that moment or she did made the link since you were helping out with the coffee. But what I do wonder about is why you feel attacked that badly. Why do you care or even hear what she is saying? If you know it wasn't you, you should not see this as a personal attack. Make a joke about it or just ignore it. This will keep the air clean.

Those are type of people who do opposite of what they are saying. It not a surprise that she might be the most dirtiest person in the office. It just a way of masking her insecurities by trying to put blame on you and of course to attract attention from the co-workers.