The heartache given by "ex".

My friend, don't you hate your ex for dumping you? Capitalize on that hatred, so you can move on. Let it motivate you to beautify your self and gain more true friends. Doing that will help you to be able to move on in life. Don't let you boyfriend gloat in knowing that you lost all your motivation and eagerness to live because he dumped you. Prove to him that you can still have " a life" after him.

Sometimes it takes awhile to get over things like that, but one day, you'll be completely over it. You'll find someone new, and you'll realize why the old relationship ended - So a beautiful new one could start.

I'm sure you can move on. If it's not much to ask, may I know how long are you and your ex been together before you break up? My ex and I were in a very serious relationship for 4 years and a month before our 5th anniversary, he broke up with me through phone. He refuses to tell me the real reason why he wants to break up with me and we haven't got any closure. We haven't met and all conversation during that turmoil break up moment are via phone. He refuses to meet up with me. I asked him before if there was another woman involved and he angrily denied it. At that time, I still am unsure of the real reason why we broke up BUT the last time I saw his FB account (4 months after we broke up) he's married and has a baby, so, putting all those together, he got another girl pregnant while he was with me. By the way, I was the one who removed him from my list of friends. When he publicly announced his relationship with another girl, we only broke up for 3 weeks. Seeing his FB profile pic with his new GF and him together hurts a lot. Worse, he tried to add me up as friend with his and his new GF's new FB account. That made me decide to delete him from my list of friends. It's difficult and I cry a lot during work and cry a lot more at home. It affected my work and affected by drive at everything. It took me a long time before I moved on but I was able to do so. I'm now single for 2 years and I'm still enjoying the single life that I haven't felt for the 4 years that we are together but I'm still not ready for a relationship. Make sure to keep yourself busy and have your friends and many people around you at all times. I went to a solo vacation 10 months after my break up and during that vacation, I got my self-confidence and drive back. My friends constantly reminded me that I'm a precious woman and I need to find someone who can appreciate me. Time heals all wounds and take time to let it heal. Don't rush things but don't dwell too much in the past. If I can make it, I'm sure you can too :)

That's sad. If he did those things then he probably don't card about you anymore. Try your best to move on and find a new life. Don't wait for anyhting to happen because evrything about the two you had ended.