Would you ever/like to cheat your lover or spouse ?

India
November 14, 2011 6:17am CST
I dont think I would cheat on my partner.I always believe in telling the truth and be honest. Yeah the truth hurts but it's better then lying. Even then i do i confess it afterward. What about you you do so then what you do\??????????
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• United States
22 Nov 11
I believe that it takes a certain caliber of person to have an affair. I don't possess that carelessness towards others emotions. The way I see it, if you're in a committed relationship with someone, there is no reason for you to go elsewhere for things. If two people are unhappy, they should just separate and move on with their lives. In regards to lying, I haven't lied to my boyfriend at all. I tell him the honest truth about everything even if it makes him upset. He gets over it because he would rather have me be honest than lie to him. In turn, he also tells me everything. Good communication is key in a healthy relationship. :)
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
14 Nov 11
No I would never want to cheat on my other half. I don't have one yet but i would never cheat on him. If he did cheat on me, I would be devastated and I swear I would never forgive him. SO yeah i wouldn't do that to him too!
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
14 Nov 11
honestly do not know. that after I get married I will be able to cheat or simply not being honest with this person. If we do not want us to be the most lied better to be honest with the person next to us. but you never know there is nothing eternal. and no person who is not wrong. but I want to have honest relationships have no infidelity among us and everything is very nice. interesting discussion. nice day!
• Philippines
14 Nov 11
If cheating here means lying to your lover about some little things you have done that you know s/he would not like, then yes I might do that. I don't want to complicate things so maybe a little lie would not hurt. But if cheating means I would go out with someone else other than my lover, then that would be a different story. I would never do that to my girlfriend. I love her so much I can't even imagine myself being with other girls. If ever time will come that I would not be feeling the same way towards her, I would tell her that I'm no longer happy. Even if that's the case, I would still have respect for her and her feelings.
• United States
14 Nov 11
I would never cheat on my husband. I'm very happy and content with just him, and him alone. If I did I would have to tell him becuase it would just weigh me and my conscious down. I'm the type that can't hold stuff like that in. It just makes me more and more depressed and down. I do agree that telling the truth is better than lying. If you lie once, it always seems that you'll have lie again and again to cover up the truth.
@lijoos (346)
• India
14 Nov 11
hai sheetal i have already started this discussion. before you starting a discussion you want to make sure that its not duplicating the previous discussions. mylot will not allow this .and your discussion will be deleted if its duplicated. wish you the very best