My friend likes to date older woman

United States
November 14, 2011 3:08pm CST
Probably it was my friend's preference, or he was hurt by his ex before. He doesn't like to date younger woman, he thinks most of them are gold - digger. Lately, he met another woman in his home town Savannah, they were randomly met at the restaurant, and the woman invited him to Atlanta, and pay for his trip, since he has financial difficulty currently, and he doesn't have a stable job. He told us that woman loves to talk to him, so on the weekend, while he come visit this woman he just met, he also took this opportunity to visit us too. He is such a lucky guy. Anyway, I think some women are some lonely beings, and they would like to pay for someone to talk to them, is that a trend besides online dating?
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11 responses
@lilaclady (28206)
• Australia
14 Nov 11
Actual age is not important, some people are very young in the mind and some people are very old in the mind, I had a younger man in my life some years ago and he thought I was too young in the mind, mind wise he was older than me even though he was actually younger than me...
@naseemkum (1803)
• India
15 Nov 11
I agree some peoples may different from their ages. Some peoples are more mature in handling things in life even they are younger in their age. Prefering dating with old women or old men is always good because we can get good advices and caring from their life experiences. Its not suprise that old woman is searching a young men for caring and loving.
@djbtol (5493)
• United States
15 Nov 11
I agree that there are multiple factors to make that kind of relationship mutually attractive. Your friend may be right on! The older woman may be lonely. Maybe she had a prior relationship that was good, maybe she did not. Now she is a bit more mature and likely has a very keen interest in the physical, so why not grab a younger buck who can satisfy her many times over. There is also companionship and sharing of sharing of wealth (which can go either way). Hope it works out well for both of them.
@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
15 Nov 11
Your friend is lucky indeed to find a nice woman who treats him well. And to think that she would pay for his trip, just so that he could come to her place and be with her. I think, the woman has seen your friend, radiating with goodness, so she set her eyes on him. I just hope she will not play on the feelings of the woman, but instead be good and respect her.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
15 Nov 11
when one is hurt very osbeno your friend he was not intersuva how old is the woman beside him. he wants to be understood and respected like. wants to share her problems and it is up to him to help him. importance of age must worry us rather to see if your friend loves true that this love is selfless. women and men are solitary creatures and are looking for a soul mate that is nice. success. nice day!
@eljayo (1105)
• Philippines
15 Nov 11
Hi! We women prefer men who have good conversation skills. I think it doesnt matter if he is dating someone older as long as he is serious and sincere with her.
@Mashnn (4501)
15 Nov 11
Yes, it is very common but the unfortunate thing is that some women as old as rock goes for very young boys. This is a bit disturbing and shameless.
@naseemkum (1803)
• India
15 Nov 11
Its true that older woman always love to help and date with younger men. As im saying that ur friend had taken good decision because he never got hurt from that old friend. Just that old lady needs some care from somebody so she is ready to help ur friend financially. I too love chatting and dating with mature old womens because they dont avoid us since they need care.
@WakeUpKitty (8691)
• Netherlands
14 Nov 11
There is no difference between "some women" like you describe them and some men. Men are paying too for company. The way you tell it sounds as if your friend first was abused by his gf and now found a great job as a bumpster/hustler himself. Doing exactly the same as was done by him! Isn't that interesting? About the rest: some women are willing to pay just like men, others are paying because they truly believe that the guy is caring/loving them and he is saying so as well. What your friend really told this woman we will probably never know. I don't know if this is a trend, I think this always existed the only difference now is that we talk about it openly. Those who have the money are able to buy people. It doesn't matter how you call them: slaves, hookers, toy boys, hustlers/bumpsters or beggars. In the end it's all the same.
@kyrararen (601)
• Indonesia
15 Nov 11
I dont think it is a trend but yeah there are women that have had everything but friends they feel comfort with. they too much focusing on getting and settling themselves so they kinda ignored other needs. when they were settled, they find it difficult to resolve loneliness that they feel. and people around them well..... it is hard to make people around them involved in their very personal and weakest side. so yeah, it happens, but I dont think it;s a trend. and your friend, I think he;s made a good choice. :D
• Philippines
15 Nov 11
as we always know men should pay for first dates then if they are committed both of them will have their turn on paying..but if the women always pay for their bills its odd..i mean people would think that the man is just using her.. and the woman would look desperate and pathetic which is sad..
• United States
14 Nov 11
I don't balme him! Younger women are senseless and sometimes immature but older women are more developed in mind, spirit, and body so why not choose the likes of an older woman! Besides there are some very attracive older women and if you can find common inteests or similar personality traits, then you can find a suitable match! I would love to employ my feelings with those of more mature women just to see if we could spark something familial!