Did you ever had to tell someone to leave you and your BF/GF alone?
By chiyochan
@chiyosan (30186)
Philippines
November 14, 2011 6:46pm CST
This idea sprung from a previous hot topic in the movie industry. There are this young couple who are being disturbed(apparently) by the actor's ex GF who happens to be 40+year old woman with 2 kids from a former marriage(now divorced/annulled).
The current GF(who is young and impulsive - i would say) has read that the woman is still texting or sending an sms to the boyfriend. so this young actress sent her a message saying "to leave them alone".
I guess the whole story was that the ex still is trying to communicate with the boyfriend and she got fed up already so she had to do that, and tell her to leave them alone and let them be...
So have you ever been in the situation where you had to tell someone to leave you and your partner alone because they won't stop bothering you?!
1 response
@katcarneo (1433)
• Philippines
15 Nov 11
Fortunately I haven't been in that situation, but I've been told by two different girls to leave them and their boyfriends alone. AND I WASN'T AN EX OR A FLING but a close friend, and I wasn't trying to do anything bad at all.
So, if you ask me, I actually dislike girls who fight with others because of their boyfriends, because of my experience.
However, if Tan's ex just one day would show up and try to mess up things for us, then I guess I can also be the kind of person I dislike, and tell her off.
I guess you will never know how to really react unless you're there.
@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
15 Nov 11
Yeah. Actually. I have been in the situation myself and well I reacted very calmly and i thought wow i am great i did not react immediately and had time to think or to make sense of things.
But sometimes when you don't mind them, oh boy they think they can get into your nerves and when that came to me, i called her and told her to leave us alone otherwise i would contact her husband and tell him what his wife is apparently doing. oh boy did she became afraid. hahaha :D
@katcarneo (1433)
• Philippines
15 Nov 11
Oh, she's already married and yet causing you trouble? The nerve of some people. I guess when one is on the right side then there's nothing wrong with fighting. However, I also think staying calm and ignoring those who bother you can be best. I have this friend who's always being pestered by her boyfriend's ex via text. My advice was to ignore. The more ignores, the text messages become increasingly hostile. The girl was expecting her to ext back and was wanting a text fight, but since she did not reply whatsoever, the girl just got frustrated.
