Wild Or Structured, Landscaped Look In Your Garden?
By Janey1966
@Janey1966 (24170)
Carlisle, England
November 16, 2011 9:08am CST
I would say I go for the wild look for the simple reason that I like to leave plants alone to see what they do. Obviously, I do a bit of pruning if my bush interferes with my washing-line lol but apart from that, I leave everything alone "to do their thing."
It's interesting that creeper plants find their own way eventually, even if you don't restrict them by attaching them to walls. I have a small shrub that my FIL pinned to the wall and I'm very tempted to set it free because I don't like seeing it like that.
Mum's neighbour, Miriam, has a structured garden and she will actually kill something off if she doesn't like a particular plant..or move it elsewhere. My FIL is always moving plants. Interestingly, my Mum rarely moves plants which is probably where I get it from.
Miriam once asked Mum what she was doing about the big shrub at the top of the garden. When asked, "Why" she was told, "I can't see Blackpool Tower now" bearing in mind this Tower is about 3 miles away and SHE won't deal with HER shrub that sheds red berries all over Mum's side.
Also, Mum has a running dispute with Gail on the other side who has an ivy growing up the front of her house. With it being semi-detached it started interfering with Mum's side and when Dad asked Gail's husband Kevin to remove it from their side he went a bit mental and did it but hasn't spoken to them since! So, when Mum spotted some leaves that invariably fall off the ivy in Autumn, in her garden, she collected them and chucked them back into Gail's garden.
Do you get like this? All territorial over what's yours and what isn't?
As for Mum's shrub, it's staying as it is because Miriam wouldn't be able to see Blackpool Tower unless she looks out from the back bedroom anyway. I reckon she made that bit up, actually but it's staying put and that's that!!
Mum's neighbour, Miriam, has a structured garden and she will actually kill something off if she doesn't like a particular plant..or move it elsewhere. My FIL is always moving plants. Interestingly, my Mum rarely moves plants which is probably where I get it from.
Miriam once asked Mum what she was doing about the big shrub at the top of the garden. When asked, "Why" she was told, "I can't see Blackpool Tower now" bearing in mind this Tower is about 3 miles away and SHE won't deal with HER shrub that sheds red berries all over Mum's side.
Also, Mum has a running dispute with Gail on the other side who has an ivy growing up the front of her house. With it being semi-detached it started interfering with Mum's side and when Dad asked Gail's husband Kevin to remove it from their side he went a bit mental and did it but hasn't spoken to them since! So, when Mum spotted some leaves that invariably fall off the ivy in Autumn, in her garden, she collected them and chucked them back into Gail's garden.
Do you get like this? All territorial over what's yours and what isn't?
As for Mum's shrub, it's staying as it is because Miriam wouldn't be able to see Blackpool Tower unless she looks out from the back bedroom anyway. I reckon she made that bit up, actually but it's staying put and that's that!!
6 responses

@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
17 Nov 11
well.... we want to put a decomposed granite pathway in to my craft shed, so I don't have to walk in the mud to get to it - and for the day when the totally blind gal moves in - and we'll then make a container garden in the front for her to grow herbs and the like since she's also expressed an interest in doing that... but the yard??? well, I'm allergic to bugs and am bothered by extremes of heat and cold - so a yard/garden for me, is more of a place to put anything I don't want inside and won't get damaged by being outside...
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
17 Nov 11
Oh dear, sorry to hear that. Have you got plans for it in future though?
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@allknowing (153530)
• India
17 Nov 11
It was my business a few years ago designing and executing landscaped gardens. When it was time for me to have my own property where I built a house also designed by me, I worked on a landscaped garden surrounding my house. Although I could call it structured it has a systematic wild look, with a bird bath, a water fall, flowering and fruit trees, flowering shrubs, paths to walk around, etc. My garden attracts birds and that is what I always wanted.
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@allknowing (153530)
• India
18 Nov 11
As long as there are paths to walk around wilderness should be encouraged.
@margerydaw14 (735)
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18 Nov 11
I love gardening more than anything. I do the pruning thing when i get time, i am no expert, but i do watch lots of gardening progs, but they dont seem to have all the pests, like slugs and snails like i do!!! plus ants that bite, black and red. i very seldom get rid of plants, which is probably why, as well as packed flowerbeds i have approximately 40 pots of various sizes with shrubs and perennials in! I agree about the ivy, it looks nice when its got the variegated leaves in a neat little pot, but it can get totally out of hand. We had some in our garden, creeping nicely up our neighbours garage wall along with passion flower and honeysuckle, it crept very nicely in under the roof of the garage and as it was a double garage, it ended up like something like day of the triffids. luckily we found out in time and got rid of it, but i notice little bits of it now and again trying to creep up the wall again, i just keep pulling it up. my husband would love me to have a neat garden with flowers growing straight up , but i love my shrubs and grasses and all the lovely foliage.
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
19 Nov 11
Whenever I see "Gardener's World" (usually at Mum's house) we always have a good laugh at Monty Don..I mean, talk about multi-tasking. He's already had a stroke and on the way to a heart attack the way he's going. He's cute though.
Your garden sounds like Mum's (apart from the ivy) as she has pots dotted around. Her flower beds aren't wide enough, she feels and my brother keeps telling her he'll widen them for her but it has remained this way for years, hence the pots!
My Dad doesn't like his lawnmower either. He reckons it doesn't cut the grass as short as his other lawnmower that broke..but me and Mum love it because it resembles a shaggy carpet rather than a skinhead lol.

@bounce58 (17380)
• Canada
18 Nov 11
I would love a landscaped look!
Fortunately, teh backyard we have right now is maintained by the organization in our neighborhood. They've hired professionals who does all our backyard. We don't even have to clean it as it's all part of the service.
But if it wasn't, it could be a weekend hobby for me to keep it looking landscaped!
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
18 Nov 11
Mum reckons she won't be able to get up into the top of her garden eventually as it's quite hard to get up there anyway due to the steps and it being a tad overgrown in parts (still looks good though) and my brother keeps being asked to come round and sort it out but he's always at work..and I'm 100 miles away and allergic to spades.
Haha!

@changjiangzhibin89 (17239)
• China
17 Nov 11
I am interested in what you said, because I like plants ,which has something to do with my occupation.You take after your Mum in a sense, I mean that you like to leave the plants alone.In fact ,We often force our ideas upon plants. I reckon they are sure to be ungrateful if they can speak.Bearing in mind they are also living.

@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
18 Nov 11
Most definitely. An organisation I love by the way.

@changjiangzhibin89 (17239)
• China
18 Nov 11
You love plants and animals so much ,I wonder if this is in keeping with the aim of Greenpeace.
@changjiangzhibin89 (17239)
• China
19 Nov 11
I fall in with your views about the plant coming first.They are our friends.
@WakeUpKitty (8691)
• Netherlands
16 Nov 11
I have high trees at the end of my garden and my plan is to cut them down. Why because they are not only causing me a lot of allergies but it's also autumn the biggest part of the year in my garden en no sun (only wet and malt) in my house. For the rest I have a shed and large outside cages/places for my animals (ferrets and owls) plus a part fake grass (for the kids) and a small place to sit (which I seldom do).
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
17 Nov 11
Could you just cut them down a bit or not? Personally, I love trees but I do understand what you're going through with your allergies.








