correct me if im wrong?

United States
November 16, 2011 10:23pm CST
but i think i have the right to be just a little pissed. a little over a month ago my fiance blew the engine in my car (that he took back and forth to work everyday. that day he got the money to put his truck on the road, since then i have only been allowed to take his truck 3 times and that was with him in it (even though i have my own set of keys) alright well for the past 6 months i have been having health issues, it has taken me 5 and a half months to get into the dr i need to see, the next appointment he could get me in for is over a year away. i need to get my issue fixed now. anyway i told my fiance over 2 weeks ago(when i first got the letter telling me they got me in) that he would need to leave work a little early to bring me. he works 7 am to 3 pm, my appointment is at 2 pm. it was all fine and dandy until today... he tells me that he cant leave work early, but he will leave me his truck.... well his truck is on empty.... i cant put gas in it until i cash a check... HE NEEDS to be there for me to cash my check because i dont have a bank account and cant open one because everytime i do they freeze it. therefor he wants me to cancel my appointment... he makes 10 dollars an hour. all he would have to miss is an hour and a half of work so that is a whole 15 dollars. i will give him the 15 dollars but nooooo. so yes i am quite pissed because i NEED to be at this appointment but he refuses to take me... hello if you didnt blow the engine in my car then i wouldnt need you. i think 2 weeks is plenty of notice and for an appointment i have waited over 5 months for... an appointment i cant cancel because if i do i wont be able to get in again until this time or later next year... i think that gives him plenty of notice and reason to take me. im not going to say what the health issue is but what i will tell you is that it has left me anemic and possibly in need of a hysterectomy. not to mention miserable. i think i have the right to be upset. do you?
2 responses
@chookie1971 (2271)
• Australia
17 Nov 11
I'd be upset as well. but I would start organising other arrangements to get to that appointment. Only to leave the cancelation of the appointment until all other avenues have been looked at.
• United States
17 Nov 11
i have come to the conclusion that the only way i will get to this appointment is if it rains today. it just sucks because if i do cancel it i wont be able to get back in until next April i have already waited like 4 and a half months for this appointment. i just cant wait to have a car again, so that i can get to these things when i need to
@tarachand (3895)
• India
24 Mar 12
I think rather than being upset, try and find a way around the situation, if you can't do without your fiance. Being upset will only ruin the situation further. If you can, try and find someone who cares for you as much as you care for him. I have undergone treatment for a life threatening situation so I know where you're coming from, but being upset or anger is not the answer. All the best, and wish you a quick recovery!