I have had my heart broken more than once
By amybcraft77
@amybcraft77 (314)
November 18, 2011 2:20am CST
Quite a few times now it was not all the other person's fault though, because then i didn't know really just what I wanted and chose all the wrong things so it was both parties fault to some extent. I do however think that these guys where con artists and knew just what they were doing to me too. Some people are just sick and all twisted up inside for what ever the reason's and think it fun to take a person's heart and say yes I had that and in a way it is still mine since look how sad she is now for me. So don't let that person have this power over you still, cut it all off completely so they cannot do this to you again and again. Repeating the same actions over and over again expecting a different response is the definition of insanity after all. Thanks,A.B.
4 responses
@julianmac (396)
• Malaysia
19 Nov 11
Hi amybcraft77,
I'm extremely sorry that you are left with a broken heart again. I know how frustrating it can be. That's what life is all about. It has its ups and downs. But the beauty of life is even at the moment of despair we can still see the light at the end of the tunnel if we look closely enough.
Give yourself some time. There's nothing that time can't heal. Get to know more and more people. This will help you to identify the bad ones out there who goes around breaking peoples heart. Matters of the heart are really complicated. Hopefully you will find the right one soon. Cheers!
@amybcraft77 (314)
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19 Nov 11
Thanks julianmac, for the support and understanding here. I do usually see the light at the end of the tunnel too but sometimes it is a bit of a slow response is all and at times close family members or friends are even the very ones to point this out to me too. I guess this is another reason I am so close and trusting of them now though too. I do feel that I will meat more people with similar interests to me and I will be happy once again. My heart will know when I'm ready I'm sure. Thanks,A.B.
@ygna21 (294)
• Bulgaria
18 Nov 11
Loving is not about being loved.Feeling love makes you a better person and it does more for you than for the other person.If that person is smart enough to appreciate it (and appreciate you) that's great.But if not,then you just move on and keep the love inside of you so you can give it to others who deserve it better.
I am sorry that you had your heart broken.But I am sure you learnt your lessons and now you know better what you want the person for you to be.
I am sure one day you will find him!Good luck! :)
@amybcraft77 (314)
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19 Nov 11
Thanks, and I am sure I will find him too. I do have some great times too that I hold on too dearly of my love to be able to share with that special person one day too. Great comment here too. Thanks,A.B.
@abhi_bangal (3686)
• India
19 Nov 11
You seem a braveheyart, my friend. People are too careful once their heart is broken. It should be a case of once bitten twice shy and for most of them, it is true. I am also one of those persons, who has had a severe heart break. What's more, I had written a poem on the same, which went on to be qualified as one of the three finalists shortlisted from all over the world.
Anyways, what I mean to say is, you don't feel physical pain that much as does a heartbreak. I am surprised that you are brave to fall in love again. I came to know after my heartbreak that there is nothing love as such. Whatever is, there is all infatuation. A husband-wife relationship is the best in the world. Because they are mentally attached.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
19 Nov 11
For me just life don't gave up in a change be try until you succeed because if you still a live you have the way of good heart also.
