Taken for granted, or guilty of taking him/her for granted?

@chiyosan (30186)
Philippines
November 21, 2011 7:49am CST
So in your relationships, have you ever felt that you are taken for granted? or are you the guilty one who well, let's say is always taking our partner's for granted and we have not appreciated what they are doing for us? Please do share honestly which one are you? :D
3 responses
jazzyrae
@jazzyrae (1745)
• United States
21 Nov 11
I think everyone dose in relationships every now and then I think it impossible not to if you have been together for a long time do yes I feel sometimes I am takin advantage of and that I take advantage of him some times
chiyochan
@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
22 Nov 11
thanks jazzyrae for your response, maybe that is true when yo are both in the relationship for so long, well i think it would come a time when you have gotten used to each other being around all the time =(
chiyochan
@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
15 Feb 13
thank you so much... =) have a great day here in mylot.
jazzyrae
@jazzyrae (1745)
• United States
22 Nov 11
Ya I think is normal though. As long as it dose not go to the extreme I think it is just normal
shrijsr
@shrijsr (574)
• Bangalore, India
21 Nov 11
Hello chiyosan, thanks to the almighty, i'm neither of the one you mentioned above! I am very happy to be treated like a price by my guy and I too treat him even better than that! I am in a very very very very happy relationship with him. Thanks to the god for giving me such a great gift. He is certainly the best gift from god of my life.
chiyochan
@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
22 Nov 11
wow shrijsr. I can feel your happiness from here! Thank God indeed for he is good and has given you the perfect person to love and be loved! Treasure him and hope he does treasure you too :) thank you for your response to the discussion.
shrijsr
@shrijsr (574)
• Bangalore, India
22 Nov 11
thanks for wishing me with that kind of happiness! Sometimes I feel that he is more than god to me, hope god doesn't turn out to be angry with me for thinking that way! He certainly will be treasured till my last breath and may be even after that! The best part, it is the same way for him too!
chiyochan
@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
15 Feb 13
no worries, my dear. I am sure that He will be the best for you. I am sure that you are really blessed with a wonderful person. :D have a great day!
Brian
@wolfie34 (26770)
• United Kingdom
14 Feb 13
My ex was always taking me for granted, they would expect me to pick them up from the station after work, now on their wage they could easily afford a taxi, but no they expected me to be the taxi service, so I would have to leave the house in the freezing cold sometimes, late at night to pick them up, I had to get up early but that didn't matter, my ex was very selfish in this respect.
chiyochan
@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
15 Feb 13
hi wolfie, but i am glad he is already an "ex" and is part of your past - a past you should no longer go back to. know that you are important and that your partner, of whoever should not treat you like this. have a good day, thank you so much for sharing. have a great day!