i know every body gets lonely if they don't have any one

@hotsummer (13835)
Philippines
November 25, 2011 10:49pm CST
to depend on or don't have company daily. even kids get lonely and not just adults. and so the loneliness i do feel daily is just normal. but the thing is a lot of people can do something about their loneliness. they can just hang out with their friends and that is why they are more often in the company of their friends and does not stay mostly at home. i wish i can do that. but even if i do have the time to go out i don't have much friends either. so that is why i do get lonely most of the time. so i would like to go out and do buy some shirt and hopefully a pair of shoes. to keep myself busy. and won't feel that lonely.
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
26 Nov 11
It is possible to feel lonely even in the company of other people it is a mind thing, depends where your mind is and what you are thinking about, I think every-one feels lonely at times.
@hotsummer (13835)
• Philippines
26 Nov 11
yes i do feel lonely even with the company of other people also specially if i don't have share same interest as them. but at least having some company can help me pass time by doing some thing else like going out that just staying at home alone.
@SandeeE (346)
• United States
26 Nov 11
ya I just said that too. I agree that being w/other's can often feel just as lonley. I think it's healthy to have some lonliness and move on from it though.
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
26 Nov 11
hello, Yeah, I also feel lonely whenever I am alone but to that boredom I used to have my computer and do surfing. In that way I dont feel any loneliness in my heart but when I am missing something I do think of my boyfriend because he always makes me happy and laugh. I dont have a lot of friends as well because I choose them carefully.
26 Nov 11
I agree! I don't have many friends because I choose carefully after so many failed friendships in the past. I keep myself inside my imagination, going in another world of my own or just dwell into books. That often helps me but I think all people do feel lonely at some point in their lives. I do wonder what kind of life sociable people live in. I would need my own quiet time if I was one of them.
@SandeeE (346)
• United States
26 Nov 11
Ya I agree that it is normal to have some day to day lonliness. But, I find that when I am lonley & I go to spend time with anyone I usually feel even lonlier. I enjoy my lonely quiet time alone. I mean I know it's lonley or whatever but I'm choosing to be alone and not being surrounded by people or in a relationship that makes me feel lonley ya know? I find shopping is a great way to release stress & get out of the house. But I'm not one that will shop alone haha so it kind sucks when you want to shop and can't because no one else is available or wants too.
@Greninee (369)
• Philippines
26 Nov 11
hello hotsummer! you're right that you have to keep yourself busy not to feel lonely. That's normal because me, too, feel lonely because I never go out since I am in-charge to watch out for our house. I just do some cleaning just to keep myself busy. That's good. let's beat the loneliness.