Have you seen anyone break under stress at office?
By ram_cv
@ram_cv (16513)
India
November 25, 2011 11:31pm CST
I once had this horrible experience. One day around 11:00 p.m. in the night, I started to hear someone laughing hysterically at the top of his voice. To add to it he also started to sing all kinds of crazy songs. Then I went and saw that there was an employee who generally was a quite chap who was doing all this. We immediately called for medical services and took him to a psychologist. Later on we came to know that this person was under tremendous stress at work and in personal life and he had cracked under the stress!! It was a scary moment for me as the toll of the rat race was very visible in that moment!!
Have you ever witnessed anything like that? What are you comments on this stress in our work life?
Cheers!
Ram
6 responses

@Bluedoll (16770)
• Canada
29 Nov 11
I think we need stress? I will lie here all morning and not get out of bed. I think a little positive stress is good however negative stress is not so good like when the bus runs over a puddle and stains all your clothes.
Taking stress though if we mean paying attention is a choice and often I do not pay much attention and learning these ignore skills more and more. It is easy for example to say to yourself, "I do not care" but then sometimes you do. 

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@Bluedoll (16770)
• Canada
27 Nov 11
I worked in a call center and saw a couple of people at different times being carried out. It is difficult to assess because stress also comes from life style. One person lost himself in the washroom and broke some of the things in there. Another started yelling in the parking lot and I did something strange for me because everything was getting to me.
I put my head on my desk one shift and started sobbing uncontrollably but yet still able to try not to let others become aware of it. Though work stress was there - like I had someone threaten my life on the phone if I did not fix his problem for example, for me it was an accumulation of everything work and personal.
One thing I do remember, was to do with the odd hours shift work, whereby I never had a weekend off or an evening other than empty monday's and tuesdays which made everything appear to me as upsidedown? I began not to be able to distinguish between home life, social life and work life as it all merged into one. Thus life became stressful without proper outlets until I finally realized I had reached a limit and needed to address it.
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@Bluedoll (16770)
• Canada
28 Nov 11
Well actually that was from the past so doesn't apply to me now. The cry was stress relief but the problem was the location. I did not want to share there. The hours, the job and type of enviroment was such that for reasons I am still not sure about it did feel like home at work and home at that time was well, felt like work.
Thanks for your concern though I think my stresser's have changed and though we are never without stress finding stuff is good but yeah, its an on going problem I think for a lot of people, in office and also for the self employed?
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@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
26 Nov 11
OMG.
i have not seen anything like this. i would be petrified seeing someone break like that. what to do? what to do? is what i'll ask myself in panic. i just hope that i can gather up myself if faced with such a situation so that i can help.

i have not seen anything like this. i would be petrified seeing someone break like that. what to do? what to do? is what i'll ask myself in panic. i just hope that i can gather up myself if faced with such a situation so that i can help.
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@ravisivan (14082)
• India
26 Nov 11
I have not had such experience in office. When you said horrible experience I thought of gheraos , strikes. My cousin who was chief manager of a bank was gheraoed for three days by the staff about three decades back.
Yes. stress in personal and official work will bring psychiatric problems. They should take the medicines prescribed. Any of us can be affected by that any time --depends on God's grace on us.
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@deliar (609)
• Indonesia
26 Nov 11
Wow, that is really horrible.
maybe that man get too high pressure from the company where he work.
maybe he just get a bad comment and he get a bad reputation.
an environment of company really influence their employers.
many of them become stress, in deep depression, and many more because of the pressure and the trouble in the company is so high.
i think we have to take care ourselves from something like this.
everyday i try to relax in working, trying to thinking to positively everyday.
it can decrease the possibility to getting stresses.
maybe that man get too high pressure from the company where he work.
maybe he just get a bad comment and he get a bad reputation.
an environment of company really influence their employers.
many of them become stress, in deep depression, and many more because of the pressure and the trouble in the company is so high.
i think we have to take care ourselves from something like this.
everyday i try to relax in working, trying to thinking to positively everyday.
it can decrease the possibility to getting stresses.@ram_cv (16513)
• India
27 Nov 11
From what I got to know he was under a lot of personal and professional stress for over a month. Finally he could not take it anymore. And then this frustration came out. The reason why I shared this was that we all need to know that we could be the next, so we need to figure out ways to de-stress ourselves every now and then.
Cheers!
Ram
@jkct02 (2874)
• Kota Kinabalu, Malaysia
26 Nov 11
Yes, it is indeed terrible to see a person who is normally quiet and well-mannered, suddenly lost himself and became horribly wrong. I had a colleague many years ago when during lunch break, he went out of the office and to a public park nearby. He used a stick to hit the cars parking there, shouting uncontrollably. A police who was at the scene stopped him but couldn't calmed him down. My colleague kept shouting on the top of his voice but with no meanings. It sounded like a howling. So the policeman chained him with a handcuff to a iron fence and called for a petrol car to come. It is a sickening sight to see someone who is good and quiet to change into a howling animal handcuffed to a fence under the hot sun. He was later taken to hospital and his family told us that he had been under a lot of pressure lately. He never returned to work again and it seems he has lost himself forever.







