The gossip has to end!

United States
November 29, 2011 12:49am CST
It sure does where I work! I work in a kitchen. Like most places there is gossip. Gossip can be no harm but at my place of employment it is vicious! It is usually started by 4 woman. They do it because they like to make other people miserible! These woman are mean b*tches and they have gottan away with this for way too long! It never was dealt with before because are former boss never wanted to deal with it. Now that we have a different boss,things are going to change! He is cracking down on it! I am not one of these mean b*tches and I have been involved in their sick gossip a few times! I wish these woman get disiplined! They make everyone's life miserible at work! No one should put up with their crap!
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
29 Nov 11
Hi blue, there always seems to be gossip in any workplace. Not sure what there is you could do to stop it other than to ignore it and not add to it. My boss refuses to listen to it. They are only hurting themselves in the long run because they ruin their own credibility. At my work, my boss almost didn't even bother to view the cameras when he heard that a woman...a co-worker..had walked out with stuff and didn't pay for it. He for whatever reason decided to listen for once and sure enough...the gossip was right but all too often it isn't and isn't even work-related. If it gets too vicious, he has stepped in because seriously...they are there to work and not create drama. He isn't paying them to stand around talking about each other.
• United States
4 Dec 11
The past two bosses didn't want to deal with the gossip! There was other things they refused to deal with! So much crap as been going for so long it is crazy! i am so grateful something will be done about it! Mark,the new boss,will deal with this and other things that need to deal with! he doesn't mess around! You boss sounds like my first boss,at the college! He sounds like yours! Yikes!
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
4 Dec 11
My boss is a wonderful boss in most respects but sometimes he would rather just ignore stuff than to deal with it head-on. At one point 2 co-workers were fighting so harshly and the one that wasn't on schedule would be texting the one that was on the clock and supposed to be paying attention to customers and doing her work. Instead she was texting back and all worked up. She complained to my boss about the co-worker texting her at work and said that he should fire her because she can't get her work done around all the texts. My boss was like, " The problem you two are having is none of my business." This had been going on for days and I finally said, " I got a plan! How about you make a rule...cell phones off while at work!" Really...end of problem!
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
Gossips in the office are not allowed, specially if it is already demeaning to a person. At the office, some also gossips, but not in a way to put down a person, but to just let friends know what happened to this and that. But as to what you narrated, they should be given a disciplinary action indeed. Someone should have the courage to tell the boss of what those 4 women are doing.
• United States
4 Dec 11
The two people who get harrased the most are very passive and stubborn! One will just put up with the crap and do nothing! The other won't becasue they "don't talk to management''! Now that we have a really nice boss that should change! The new boss will deal with it and discipline the people doing it!
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
5 Dec 11
Now you are assured that they would be dealt with.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
Oh, such people are scattered everywhere. you will be surprised as to how they can really destroy a person;'s life! I hate people who gossip as if there is nothing else to do in the world. Í tell you, it is best for you to just let them be.. and tell others not to believe them anyway.. they have no credibility and when people do not talk to them, eventually they would feel they are no longer heard and will hopefully just stop whatever it is they are enjoying to do.. to gossip that is.
• United States
4 Dec 11
I know there are gossipers everywhere! I just have not worked with so many vicious gossipers before! These woman have miserable lives and are insecure. So they try to make other person's lives miserable! I know you can't stop all of it but alot of it needs to be stopped! It is really bad at times!
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
4 Dec 11
Those people have a very bad attitude and need to be stopped. They are causing real problems in the workplace. Is the new boss on to them? I hope things get sorted soon.
• United States
8 Dec 11
I hope things get sorted out! The boss is on it! Ever since this was brought up less gossiping has happened! It is weird but nice! Some of the gossiping has been going on so long,the damage is done. I hope this keeps getting better! I have never worked at a place with so many b&tches before! Most of them have crappy lives which they don't do anything about so they take it out on others! It is not fair and very rude!
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
A gossiper person will always to gossip and can ruin others life friends and etc. This is a destroying life of others,just want troubles,and no peace.. That person need to be corrected,and discipline.Any one can do it there if they know how to stop it. Let that person shame,and what She sow will also reap!
• United States
4 Dec 11
Everyone has been worn at work that if it is happening it will be reported and disipline will happen! Part of the problem with this two of the people who get harrased on a regular basis won't report it! They are very passive! I hope now they will report it because the way they are treated is not nice!
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• Philippines
4 Dec 11
Yes i hope that will reported and that is not good and also seen what the bad actions i think will get worse if not do it right away..
• United States
29 Nov 11
I know exactly where you're coming from. I'm now trying to get my first job and one of the things I'm most not looking forward to is the gossip that surrounds every work place. I've experienced first hand the damage work place gossip can cause. I dated a guy and I used to go see him after work, and one of his co workers made up an out of this world lie about me flirting with his friend. It nearly cost us our relationship. When you get out of high school, you expect to leave the childish drama behind, you figure the real world, the grown up, adult world is mature and responsible, and that as an adult people out grow gossiping and other childish traits reminiscent of highschool, but the sad truth is that pathetic, immature drama follows us throughout life and there's no way to escape it, you just have to work hard not to become a part of it.
• United States
4 Dec 11
I am able to not to hear all the gossip that goes around and I like that! When I do I am like ,not again! The same people have done this forever and they go after the "weakist" of the staff! It si nuts! I know the woman who do it are insecure and have miserable lives! That shouldn't give them the right to gossip like they do!
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
Very true. A workplace isn't a real workplace when there is no gossip. I have dealt many times with companies like these. I don't know why some people loves to talk about their colleagues. One thing is for sure, the gossipers are insecure and not happy about their life. That's the reason why they wanted to see some people having a miserable life.
• United States
4 Dec 11
I know the woman doing most of the gossiping are insecure and not happy with their lives! This is the biggest reason they gossip and make other person's life miserable at work! It is crazy and now that are new boss is well liked it will change!