Best friends and best enemy

Philippines
November 29, 2011 7:11pm CST
It is always compared that our best friends are our best enemy. Do you have this kind of friend too? I guess it would be better to keep a best friend with an opposite attitude to complement your differences.
4 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
30 Nov 11
No I don't have a best friend or someone I would give that name. Also not a best enemy.. although I dont quite understand what you mean by that. I only know an expression like: your best friend can be your worst enemy. I think if your best friend is envying you or if your best friend is your enemy it's not your best friend at all.
1 Dec 11
you can just let him against you sometime ,,not envy ,,which may help makes you perfect,cause you may find your shortcoming
• India
30 Nov 11
exactly meeksilent, one of the main reason for this is we cant really avoid or hurt our friends if we don't like them, instead we must stick to them even though we know they go wrong, this is common for all, so better be cautious in choosing right friends.
1 Dec 11
yeah ,,,but good friends may change with time ,,so make decision depend on different situation
@GemmaR (8517)
1 Dec 11
I think that when you have arguments with your best friend, they can get rather bad, because they know you enough to be able to play all of the argument cards that they know will be able to hurt you the most out of all of the things that they could possibly want to say to you. I do also think that opposites attract in both relationships and friendships, because it's very nice to be able to have different things to talk about with each other that aren't necessarily the same as what you're interested in all of the time yourself.
1 Dec 11
wow ,,how unique your view is ,, Its not a bad idea but i just worry really conflict arise...