Words And Facts
By srjac0902
@srjac0902 (1169)
Italy
December 3, 2011 1:17pm CST
Friends,
all of us agree often that today we hear or read words words and words and we get frustrated that there aren't edifying actions to heal or to transform. Sometimes words too are a vital part of actions to bring healing. A kind word, an explanation of a fact which the other does not know, a consoling poetry, a kind and pleasant joke which makes us burst out with laughter, a kind and intimate dialogue, an act of teasing and laughing over it but always stimulated by love and affection, a conversation , that is to listen and offer some suggestion then how nice are the words!
How often we cry because children do not speak, partner does not exchange a word, parents did not utter that affectionate phrase!! we have to utter words but concrete and genuine words to make the others happy, to instruct the ignorant, to defend the helpless to succour the lonely but never never and never to hurt.
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@WakeUpKitty (8691)
• Netherlands
4 Dec 11
I wonder if you copied what you wrote from somewhere. Is this your opnion in your own words? What exactly are you trying to make clear or what kind of discussion are you trying to start since it beats me.
You don't need words to communicate if you have an open eye for the other person. If you are able to observe, to get know that person.
There is way more in body language, the way people look, walk, touch, sit, etc.
I never cried because my children did not speak for the first 4+ years. It was fine with me and as they start talking they spoke our language perfectly! there is no need to speak if the words are useless and are just there to fill up the silence.
@srjac0902 (1169)
• Italy
4 Dec 11
Madam
if may check my writing for plagiarism by using modern tools. I know that I have written it spontaneously without refering anything. I wrote it because as a social worker I know the condition of the people or among the members in the family. You too may well aware of in your society, how many couples suffer for want of a dialogue, for want of a declaration of affection or recognition or appriciation. But there are some going on arguing and lavishing of words and words but the facts are all worthy of criticism.
Yes I agree with you when you say that you don't need words to communicate if you have an open eye for other person. Yes I too when there is some misunderstanding or conflict I too declare to my associate members or friends .... I do not see any need to declare or justify of my love towards you. You are experiencing it and that is all. I will never go to justify with words...
But in reality many times we see in the family, there is no dialogue, all the activities are performed in silence. And some members continue either to grumble or to brood over behind but there is no cordial dialogue.
This is human psyche that some are extrovert and some are introvert. We cannot obnlige anyone to do or act as per my tendency. But for the smooth running of cordial relationship there must be a dialogue, words and facts. This is my opinion alone.
@polaroidsredwine (509)
• United States
4 Dec 11
Body language does say a lot - a lot of the subtle things we may not communicate in our words, things we're unwilling to express verbally. But words are also a powerful tool in communication, and can be the difference between a long-standing grudge from one not understanding the other and a peace treaty. A dialogue between two people can bring understanding to one another.
@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
4 Dec 11
Words mean a lot. The Biblical writer James devoted a whole chapter in his books of James to the destructive power of uncontrolled words that are like a devouring fire in their effect on those who hear. The Bible is full of exhortation on being kind, comforting, lovings, encouraging, etc in our speech. It was summarized in what we know as the Golden Rule -- to do to others as you'd like them to do to you.
