what is the best way to win over people
By srinivas2036
@srinivas2036 (188)
India
December 5, 2011 7:03am CST
I have seen many people who are sincerely loving another one. but not able to express it properly and also many people who got rejected though honestly loved. And i have seen many cases of people who are not serious but making a plenty of friends..What is the basic thing one has to do to win over the people....?
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7 responses
@srinivas2036 (188)
• India
5 Dec 11
I want to be with the people I loved always...So I think there is no wrong in winning them...
@srinivas2036 (188)
• India
10 Dec 11
yeah may be you are right...I will try to do it...Thanks for posting...friend.
@boyuancy (1708)
• India
7 Dec 11
Unfortunately, it is a hard fact and it kills me but yes, fake people who can look and speak good are usually the ones who are popular. But the ones who can't/don't, (Like me), they make the best of friends and have others ways of expressing themselves.
I can write, and I'm pretty good with my words. But I cannot express my feelings by saying it. Hence, I am still single. But I have made friends with, what I know are the best people in the world. I love them and are proud of them. What is the use of having a million friends if they are not useful?
Like MJ, he was the most popular person in the world. But he is known to be very alone and lonely and so he befriended Bubbles.
@srinivas2036 (188)
• India
10 Dec 11
yeah....you are absolutely...right...I am also just like..I love and care a lot... But not able to express it properly..and the other way people who are not sincere are moving ahead than me...what can I do...? and I hope every thing will be good in your life..Thankyou...friend.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
7 Dec 11
People that are easy going, people that begin conversations and not expect others come to talk to them, people that are cheerful and sociable... I see these are the ones who have many friends in number.
Now real friends...maybe the real meaning of word, people might have 2 or 3.
@liumirror (138)
• China
7 Dec 11
I think If someone love another sincerely. Some day the another person will know this even the person really love him or her.Because feeling is a delicate and complex thing. and because person love another person don't mean the another person must love him or her.But I think the another person will not hurt the person who loved him or her.
@soulist (2985)
• United States
6 Dec 11
You took the words out of my mouth. In order to win people over you simply need to be yourself. Why should you or would you be someone you are not just to have someone like you. I honestly did that when I was younger and i was so unhappy keeping up with trying to be who I wasn't. Once i began being who I am I was so much happier.
@iswariyachellappan (122)
• India
7 Dec 11
If you want to win many hearts, just keep a simple sweet smile in your face. Even when you are sad to cry loud or angry enough to kill a person, act as if you are happy and keep that smile.
But this is not the real love. there is no need to win many hearts. I think the one who accepts you as you are is the true love. If you win one heart, that is more than enough.
My hubby will not expose love so much as I do. But I know how much he loves me. He is my heart. I won that heart.
Hope you find one such heart loving you sincerely without much exposure !
@srinivas2036 (188)
• India
10 Dec 11
yes...fantastic friend...Thanks...Waiting for love like that U mentioned...Thanks for commenting...
@purplealabaster (22094)
• United States
5 Dec 11
We can't control who we love nor can we control who loves us. The only thing we do have control over is how we act and react in any given situation. If we know that the person/people that we love do not care about us, then we can choose to keep putting ourselves in a position to be hurt hoping that some day they will change their hearts or we can move on and try to find someone else that deserves our love, attention and affection.
