Loving somebody whom you adore
By Akarshan51
@Akarshan51 (181)
India
December 5, 2011 8:47am CST
It has happened in my life. My dream girl, whom I adored and still I adore, was coming everyday in my dream. I know it is not correct and I will never be able to even meet her. But I dream everyday about her and cry in my dream for not able to come in contact with her. May be it is a laughable thing. But I just want to share it to the whole world. Has it happened with anyone else?
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6 responses
@Xansus (946)
• Bulgaria
8 Dec 11
Well its good to share with anyone :)
But anyway thats how it goes for me too , now i only see the girl i love in my dreams and well its kind of gift and a curse . Gift because i'm somehow happy , ate least in my dreams , and curse because i normally cant let her go specially if this thing go on .
But well nothing to do about it can i :D Dreams are not thing that is controled :)
@Akarshan51 (181)
• India
8 Dec 11
Sometimes dream, if prolonged, can mark on our mind. That has happened in my life. Without thinking the real consequences of it, I started enjoying the dreams. Later it has become a habbit when I used to close my eyes. One day I lost concentration in the shooting set for a tele film and got ridiculed by the director infront of everybody. I felt very very ashamed that day.
@Akarshan51 (181)
• India
11 Dec 11
Now gradually, I am overcoming from the situation. Practising more for my singing class. Got call for another two upcoming tele films. Busy with the script. Sometimes she comes in my mind, but not that much as earlier.
@Akarshan51 (181)
• India
24 Dec 11
Today again I have seen her. After so many days but for a moment. Asked the director about her committment and kept mum for asking so. Hope I am not becoming mad.
@francesca5 (1344)
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5 Dec 11
without wishing to get too weird, some very imaginative people are able to connect to each other through their imaginations.
there are loads and loads of songs about this. try joni mitchell "you turn me on, i'm a radio", golden earring "radar love", and lots of van morrison. they are not new songs, but certainly the concept of meeting the person of your dreams in your imagination is well documented in song.
so i wouldn't rule out the possibility of one day meeting her in real life, its not unheard of, however, there was a man who used to dream about me, but prefered to dream about me, rather than know me in real life. don't make that mistake.
@Akarshan51 (181)
• India
6 Dec 11
Thanks for sharing your views. I am a matured person and well established in my life. I was just sharing my condition with the world. Being in the same profession, although I am at learner stage can make one day a chance to meet her. And I know that I won't be able to tell her that day about my feelings. She may be then present there with her hubby and I will be ridiculed by everybody and ultimately will ruin my reputation then and there. I am just sharing my feelings that she comes everyday in my dream and I can't tell this to anybody without being annonymous.
@Akarshan51 (181)
• India
6 Dec 11
I know that I will never tell her the truth. It is just a feeling and I presume that it will be hidden in my mind for ever. I just enjoy her coming in my dream.
@francesca5 (1344)
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6 Dec 11
that's a shame. but it may be you will meet someone like her, perhaps your dream is showing you the sort of woman you would get on well with.
who knows what good things the future may hold.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
5 Dec 11
There is nothing wrong dreaming about your dream girl.
Everyone has the right to dream of their loved ones or someone they loved much.
Crying or feeling sad is also a normal thing when we lost contact with our beloved.
@Akarshan51 (181)
• India
6 Dec 11
No sir, I don't know her. She also does not know me. It is just a feeling towards her, which has grown in the recent months while undergoing my singing classes. I am also an upcoming actor and I know if anybody know this, my career will be ruined in one day.
@Akarshan51 (181)
• India
8 Dec 11
Today I just happened to see her in a moving car, while I was just busy in a telefilm shooting. I lost my concentration and was ridiculed by the Director. The shot was to retake again. I felt ashamed. May be she was going for her music rehearsal or to the studio.
@srjac0902 (1170)
• Italy
5 Dec 11
It happens and it is natural. But if you have a family and love fmaily values must be mature in facing such condition. Take it as normal and wish her good. Accept it in a mature way.
@Akarshan51 (181)
• India
5 Dec 11
I am a mature person and know that it is absurd thinking. But, being in the same profession may be the reason for generating an attraction towards her. If she also come to know this thing, she may laugh or tell me an insane. But, I just felt in love with her.
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
5 Dec 11
I adored a person once when I was in high school. It is different from you because I see him in the school. I thought at that time was I am already in-love to that person. But my love is unrequited. I was not given the chance to confess to him my feelings. Up until now.
@Akarshan51 (181)
• India
6 Dec 11
I had never been in love with anybody before without my wife. But, while engaging in the present profession, like singing I started to love her. Now I dream her and sometimes I see her infront of me. I know I have to overcome this and trying to do meditation to tackle this awkward situation.
@chithuunni (77)
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5 Dec 11
Hi,
It is not wrong to adore or love any one. I too had experienced the same and you know we get a lot of relief by disclosing it to someone as you did here. But well, it should be limited to that extent where it may affect each other's lives in a negative way, if there is a possibility.
God bless you and I am sure one day you would come across her and we would see a beautiful post in Mylot.com
@Akarshan51 (181)
• India
5 Dec 11
Hi chithuunni,
Thanks for the response. I thought that I have overcomed emotion in my life. But, I don't know, why this sort of love has grown in the few months. I know that, I will never leave my family and what I am thinking is just a mad person's thinking. I may get bullsheet from everybody. We are in the same profession. But she is at the top of that profession I am at a learner age.
@chithuunni (77)
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5 Dec 11
Hi,
You are a matured person and realise things in a better way. There is nothing wrong in having a soft feeling towards a beautiful and adorable person. Since you are very much a family person, I know nothing is going to affect your famly life. Let the life go on, on its natural way, god bless.
@Akarshan51 (181)
• India
8 Dec 11
I know that it can happen in anybody's life. I am also an upcoming actor and presently learning classical singing. I promise today that one day I will be a famous actor as well as a good singer. But that part is different. I am just unable to stop her coming in my dream.
