Positive advice, but people won't listen

United States
December 7, 2011 3:14pm CST
A co - worker of mine had done something wrong at the production line, and we just want to let him know that he had done it wrong, and let him know that he should be careful next time when he has hands on it. But this advice might turn out to be negative effect. He won't believe it, and told me that hasn't happen before when he has done it. It sounds like we trying to create some trouble for him. Gosh, I just can't believe that we genuinely try to be nice to him, and told him his mistake; in return, he talk back to us with antagonistic tone. This person never learn.
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7 responses
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
7 Dec 11
Some people are like that, they don't like to look as if they were wrong, sometimes it has been noted and they just wont admit they are wrong and then some people just can't be told.
• United States
7 Dec 11
I don't like these people, and they thought they are perfect, but they are not. They should know when they made mistake, and we are the ones who checking it too.
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
In this life, we encounter different people. We are all different. There are those who are open- minded while there are also persons who are close-minded. If we happen to interact with the latter, we just have to understand since we cannot let someone understand us if he does not want to. As long as our intentions are clear, we do not have to worry.
@aprilsong (1884)
• China
8 Dec 11
Hi,kingparker, there are some people who don't like others tell them they are wrong directly. Even they have realized their mistakes. They do this because they think admitting their mistakes will lose their "face". Therefore, to keep their face, they pretend to be right. You don't need to angry with his action. Maybe he is the person i described before. Well, if you keep an eye on how he will do in the next days, maybe you can find that he will accept what you have advised. Wish he is just wanting to save his face. Because mistakes can really bring about danger, that is the most important.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
Well, some people just really don't learn from other people. In that case, let him learn on his own, from his own mistake. At least you've tried to give him what you think is good for him. In time, I hope, he will learn.
@rusale (647)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
Some people have those kind of attitudes. For me, maybe it would be great to give him time to think. Maybe he had spoken in antagonistic tone because inside him, he felt trouble. Maybe he don't know what to do. Just give him time to think. Give him a space. After few days he'll know his mistakes. But if he will not, you'd better stay away from that kind of person.
@zuzaki68 (16)
8 Dec 11
your co - worker will not listen your advice. know why ? they are trying to prove to their selves that this is right, and nothings wrong. and then the argument goes on. that's people :)
• United States
7 Dec 11
You did the right thing. If your co-worker wont listen to you & makes the same mistake again then it seems that next time you may have to speak to your manager or boss about it. If you don't & it comes out that this co-worker has been making these mistakes for some time & that you knew about it but didn't say anything then it could cost you your job as well. This is not like when we were back in school & we didn't snitch on our friends. This is your livelihood. Now more then ever with the way the economy is we want to hold onto whatever jobs we have for as long as we can.