Did you ever changed your opinion about a person? good turned bad & vice versa
By chiyochan
@chiyosan (30186)
Philippines
December 8, 2011 9:08am CST
Hi mylotters! :D It's been a while since i was able to post a lot here in mylot and i have been very busy lately. I just want to ask all of you if you have ever been to a situation where you initially thought that a person was very good, kind, someone who fears God, and so on and you would discover that she has done abortion, and has been going to bed with a lot of guys, etc. So your opinion of her, or what you thought she is would be changed and well you would be in denial at first right? how do you usually react to some things like this?
And what about if you thought a person is really someone who does not value others, someone who seemed like the worst "bad boy" then you would know that he is actually a very kind person, or someone who is the opposite of what you think he really is...
5 responses
@CelticSoulSister (1640)
• Southend-On-Sea, England
8 Dec 11
Yes, I've frequently changed my opinions about various people...from both sides, e.g. some people who I've disliked intensely at first, I've come to really like and respect a lot, and vice versa....quite a few people who I've really liked a lot at first, I've come to dislike them strongly later on when their true personality has come out. It's been for different reasons to yours though as it doesn't bother me if somebody is a believer in God or not, or whether they have had an abortion...it's usually something deeper within their character which they have shown that has made me change my opinion of them one way or the other.
@acrossnation (773)
• Malaysia
8 Dec 11
I just let the person be what they want to be. What matters is my/ourself in how to know how to react when facing all kinds of situation. Like if we think positive positive will appear. Like if i want to think to much of others doing then i dont have a life of my own cause i be using my already precious time trying to figure out 5 Ws..Why Where When What Who. 
@zaga_cleuth (1407)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
I do. People say, first impression last. But, what if you just initially judge that person as someone who is so religious yet so different from the inside. We can't tell unless we know them for so long.
Even people that we do know for so long can be a different person for the other.
All I can say is, just see good in everyone. Cuz all of us have a bad side. Whether we like or not.
@WakeUpKitty (8691)
• Netherlands
8 Dec 11
Hard one but I don't think I ever did. First impression is first opinion.. I never was wrong if it came to that, only tried for a period in my life to give them a change, to prove they are different as I thought they would be.. well they did not disappoint me. I was always right.
