Am I going to leave him?

Don't worry Yingtang, if you really love him, you would give him this chance to make something of his life, and if he truly loves you, he will maintain communication and will come back for you. There are things in life we cannot stop, and the only thing constant in this world is change, now both of you are no longer kids, you have changed to fresh graduates and most likely become professionals soon, and this part in your life as well is change, but, it is up to you both if this event will change your feelings towards each other. Have a nice day

Don't worry, if your love is supposed to last, it will, come what may. I know so many Long Distance relationship success stories. It is for your good and your (Your relation's) future's good only. All the best.

In a successful relationship the two people compromise. He needs to go far away for his job, that's a necessity. You can follow him and be together if you're willing to live in a new place with new people. Aren't there well paying jobs in your hometown? Sometimes you just have to make a sacrifice for greater rewards in the future. What's more important, him or living in familiar surroundings? What are your own career options and can you get a job where he'll be working? Can he get a job in your hometown and is he willing to? It all comes down to what you value more and what you're willing to give up for it--or what you're able to talk him into. Maybe a town halfway between? Be creative in your thinking and honest with yourself as to what you can and cannot live with. Good luck.

Hello, Yingtang If you're really in love with your BF, don't leave him. If he's going far away to a city as you've said, talk with him seriously if his leaving you is for the good of your relationship. Say, he'll look for a job in the city. Tell him that you'll wait for him all the time. He knows perhaps that the future of the 2 of you is very slim if he and you just stay put in your place. You can handle the situation. With the help of cellphones, the longings you'll feel for each other while the 2 of you are distant apart will be minimized. Hope this suggestion will help you solve your predicament.

Good day to you YINGTANG! That's a very hard decision. You two have been together for six years and living away from each other is such a big obstacle. Have you both talked about it? Living away from each other is hard but I guess if you both talk about it, it would be okay. Distance always play a big role in relationships but I guess with the technology today, it might work. We have Skype now and many other means of communicating. Maybe you both have to trust each other and continue to communicate, and of course, never forget the biggest role of relationships, you both have to remember what you've been through and never forget to LOVE each other. Good luck to both of you, and God bless! :)

Believe him, believe youself! Let him go! What belong to you,it is yours; If not, even though you grasping it tightly,it will disapper sooner or later... In the end, I wish you and him can be together and have a happy family! :)

1.If the deep feelings between you,you do not leave him,because to find a person worthy of love is not easy,to cherish him.Later you can try to solve the problem of separation between the two places. 2.If the general feeling between you,you should leave him on this,do not hesitate.Then you and he start to find a new love target.

If it a good job that will make him away from you- be considerate and support him. It is for your own-for your future. He might want to earn a bigger to prepare for your marriage someday. Believed and have faith in your love.

Hi yingtang. I suggest that continue with your relationship and maintain a communication despit.e the distance. Who knows, he may be planning of getting you after establishing himself abroad. If the distance would present a problem, you can help him find means on how you can follow him. Do not end the relationship yet. You would know if it is really time to leave him when both of you lost the love anymore. But since both of you love each other, your love will find a way. Keep the faith dear.

Well, let him have his way. Having a job , in a far place could give him a bigger salary and promotion specially in big cities. Just do the necessary communications always. If you can or if he can, visit each other at least once a month. Physical presence in addition to good communication to each other is important to keep the relationship lasting. Trust with each other is also a must.

hi yingtang, If you have faith and trust to each other let him build a better future to both of you chances are there though being far to each other is not easy but sometimes you need to do things for a bright future. You can still see each other if there are chances just make it more memorable and worth it. happy mylotting

That does put you in a tough situation. There are some questions that you can ask yourself and him to help you decide what to do. Is your relationship worth you moving to where he is? Do you love him enough to make this kind of sacrifice? A lot of the time women move to where there partner or spouse is at. It has to be soemthing that you want to do and that you think is worth it. It is hard to carry on a successful long distance relationship, not that it's impossible. I hope that you will be able to make a decision that is best. You should also ask yourself why did he choose such a city when you both are in I'm assumming a serious relationship? Does he value your relationship?

if its for a better opportunity, let him go. sometimes the distance can really be a good thing for two people. you know, absence can make heart grow fonder.

If you have Trust, Faith and Love for each other. Distance is NOTHING. The reason why it hurts to separate with the person we loved , It is because our souls are connected to the person we loved.