Friend problem
By EavesJ
@EavesJ (95)
United States
December 9, 2011 6:31am CST
My best friend in highschool really didn't treat me like a friend, even tho we hung out a lot, and were best pals. He always got mad about the smallest things and would take his anger out in some small way on his friends. I really don't know how to feel about my friend, even tho he treated me like crap durring our days when we attended school. It pains me to say I really don't talk to him that much for it. Most of the time I want to inflict pain onto him for it, lots of pain, brake a limb kind of pain. That kind of pain.
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5 responses
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
9 Dec 11
If a friend hurts and it hurts, then it needs to understand that it is not your friend.
why this type of pain caused him to want it and it causes you such pain very complex relationship.
This is something very stranon.
moa not understand you if you're real friends.
nice day!
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@ferbjohn69 (1127)
• Philippines
10 Dec 11
I have experienced the same with my ex best friend,ramir.
It was my fault so he got mad at me.He didn't talk to me for a long time,and hanged out with other people and seemed to ignore me.But that attitude of him didn't stay the same for long.Because he gave me importance he started to talk to me and act normally after some days.Because I valued our friendship I accepted him and everything became fine.
If your friendship is strong,everything will be fine soon.
@ferbjohn69 (1127)
• Philippines
11 Dec 11
What happened when you were sixth grader?Can I know it if you don't mind sharing it.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
9 Dec 11
And this is someone you consider a "friend"??? Really it doesn't sound like a friendship at all to me. It sounds more like you are desperatly trying to be a friend to someone that you really don't like at all for the sake of perhaps the length of time you have known each other and called yourselves "friends". I would just let it go. If you ever were friends then I would say that you have definitly grown apart. I think the fact that you inwardly wish to brake a limb should tell you all you need to know. You are not his friend and he is not yours. Let it go.
@sijabatnaburjut (2171)
• Indonesia
10 Dec 11
I think it helps you observe your friendship, where more, good or bad to befriend him. Who's more you give in or he, who is more wrong you or him. If you succumb more to cover her mistake, I thought he was a very selfish. I know that friends do not make friends easily, but if the friend had not assume you are, I think you have to think over again to make friends with him.
@rusale (647)
• Philippines
10 Dec 11
If he is not treating you like a best friend anymore, you need to step back a little bit. Maybe his not suppose to be your best friend. People change. Don't expect that it'll be in the same way as it was before. If you think that he also think you are his best friend, you can tell him the changes he had done to you. But if it's not, you need to understand and let him be just a plain friend to you.
