can you cheat on someone you love?
By pebblez8989
@pebblez8989 (321)
United States
December 9, 2011 8:45pm CST
could you cheat on someone you love? i know a couple of people that made a bad mistake and cheat on the person they love. well my aunt uses to cheat on my uncle all the time and now that he found out he left her. she trying to do all she can to make him come back to her. she just wants to be with him so bad she always calls him every single day crying for forgiveness but he won't listen. or she would show up at his house stalking him. she acting like a crazy person for him and it already past a year and she still not giving up on him . i have so many friends that cheat on there boyfriends and then cry for them later when there boyfriends find out.so have you ever cheated on someone you loved before?
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14 responses
@Xansus (946)
• Bulgaria
10 Dec 11
Well i see his and her point but she should have known what will happen , the cheating itself simply tells i'm not wanting to be with you , and well thats a great wound seting on the person you "love" . Well i'm standing behind your uncle and your aunt should stop acting like a crazy lady , because its her own fault .
No i never and never will , cheating i find so durty , people that do that in any way with any reason are trash people .
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@mohkanari (1957)
• India
10 Dec 11
Love is a divine thing to me. All connections with love are rooted in my heart. I can't cheat a person whom I love as well as I can't withstand the cheating of anyone me whom I love very much. But there are so many persons around us keeping superficial love attachments and not bothering cheating the others for selfish advantages.
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@jadoixa (1166)
• Philippines
10 Dec 11
no i would never cheat on a person i love..maybe the other person can cheat on me but me NO..sometimes those people who cheat on their loved one..sometimes it happens that those person whom they are with on cheating their partner sometimes they don't last..and they always go back to the one they love..and usually they regret it but it is too late...if i am the one being cheated i could not forgive the person who did it to me..it is a very painful thing,,
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@squallming (1775)
• Malaysia
10 Dec 11
I wonder how did your aunt cheated on your uncle that causes such impact to that guy? It must be something really BIG. By cheating, what kind of cheating do you mean? I will not cheat on my girlfriend in the sense that I would not have intimate relationship or actions towards other girls. I would not lie to her without a good cause too.
@kicysmile (213)
• China
10 Dec 11
hi pebble,i will never cheat on someone.beacuse i am honesty person,it's not my customer.i think is good for me.but my boyfriend always cheat on me,I find it.eventhough is a small thing ,but i think is a not good for our relationship,but now ,he always make a offer of marriage,i want not to marry a lier,i think is no meaning for me,
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@misfofytu (1)
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10 Dec 11
I have never cheated on my significant other! It's like I never have the urge to! As easy as it would be to cheat (because he's away at school more than he's home), I am faithful. I think if I wanted to cheat, I should just break up with him. I'd rather hurt him with the truth than to keep living a lie. If I cheated, I'd be hurting everything we worked hard for. I love him wayyyy to much to think about cheating. My heart is in the right place with him and cheating on him would disrespect all of the good girls like me! I'm in love, and once that's over, it's time to let go, not cheat.
@saundyl (9783)
• Canada
10 Dec 11
I've never cheated on anyone before, dont intend to ever either. To me...cheating is more about the lying and the sneaking around. If someone ever cheated on me...i would be like your uncle and leave. More because the trust is damaged. Because she or he took the time to lie, sneak around and not consider how it might affect our relationship or hurt each other. That speaks volumes in how much a relationship is truly valued.
There are many couples that have open relationships and sleep with other people...but dont consider it cheating because the other half knows and agrees.
@sijabatnaburjut (2171)
• Indonesia
11 Dec 11
I think a lot of people commit fraud every day. I think the question becomes whether you do that intentionally and unintentionally. I think the circumstances would be tantamount to any reasons for us to do that, we are still a cheater in the eyes of others. I do not know that I am cheated or cheating others, surely people do it. Everyone cheats. I think someday cheating others is common place.
@Robswife2006 (1208)
• United States
10 Dec 11
No & I never would. You can't say you love someone & then cheat on the person your supposed to love. Along with cheating comes lying to that person as well, so you are not respecting that person either. You can't be in a loving & honest relationship if you are both lying & cheating on your mate.
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@Dancer96 (36)
• United States
30 Dec 11
My boyfriend's ex cheated on him and then stalked him, begging him to come back... this all happened over two years ago and she is still posting lies about him. My boyfriend and I live in different cities and have limited time together, so trust is very important for us. I would never cheat on him, knowing how badly it would hurt both of us and our families. I know I have something great and would never do anything to risk losing him.
@ShyBear88 (59306)
• Sterling, Virginia
11 Dec 11
No I haven't cheated on anyone before. I don't plan on cheating on my husband. My ex friends wife she loved to cheat on him all of the time. She made excusses for why she did some and none of them were ever that good to being with. It took him 3 years before he left er now he wings nothing to do with her or there kids. That is why I don't talk to him no more because he says he never had any kids nor a wife before.
