Have you ever said Good Night to your Ex

India
December 12, 2011 12:41pm CST
This question was in my mind for several years now, Lets say you just broke up, planing to move on and now you are on line with your ex and want to say Goodnight, what are the thoughts, the feelings before you say those words ..
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@ShyBear88 (59283)
• Sterling, Virginia
12 Dec 11
Well I have talk to my ex almost 2 years ago. We asked each other how each others family was doing. Talked online fire a few. Nothing upsetting or anything. I have no feelings for him. Weather he has some for me I'm not sure. I said good bye like any other good bye. Good bye and good night sleep well.
• India
14 Dec 11
Nice to hear from you. Tell you a fact each time I say good night to my ex .. the rest come into my throat. Fight hard not to say the words. Dont get me wrong we have moved on.
@ShyBear88 (59283)
• Sterling, Virginia
15 Dec 11
For me saying good night or good bye is nothing no feels of any sort behind the words. It's like air or saying good by to someone on the phone that I dont know.
@davaome (1826)
• Philippines
12 Dec 11
I didn't get your question... Do you mean on the line as in phone? or online as in internet? sorry kinda slow today Yes I have said goodnight to my Exes before because, I have not been bitter to any of my Exes. I still send and receive text messages from them, and and once in a while i get to chat to them, either by phone or through facebook chat. I have made most of them friends and seem to get along just fine.I even have one ex that I could talk to the whole night until morning. but going back to your question, when saying goodnight, I would remember those times when i could just caress her, and have this slight happiness in saying good night. Maybe their are times that I wished we were still together, but the best I could do was to accept that I am only her friend and nothing more. Sad but that's reality.
• India
13 Dec 11
That was rightfully said, You did get the question right.
• India
12 Dec 11
I think if we both are online and I am leaving I will surely not say good bye if we broke with a tight fight. And if it was a sweet and compromising break up I will surely talk to her and treat here as a friend. I still treat my ex as a good friend of mine and we talk everyday. When we broke up we knew that we are not meant for each other. I have my own girl friend and she knows about her.
• India
14 Dec 11
Nice to hear from you .. good you have kept it that way, me just the good by part is always hard.
@hnaboro (113)
• Uganda
13 Dec 11
Personally, I wouldnt feel anything strange because i never hold a grudge when a relationship goes sour... instead we stay friends if he wants to be friends with me.
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
14 Dec 11
I haven't said anything like that to my ex-boyfriends. I don't have communication with them since we broke up. I don't want to remember them anyway.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
12 Dec 11
Then I say goodnight and close down. Ex is exit.
• India
14 Dec 11
Very brave and rightfully so
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
13 Dec 11
There is nothing wrong with the word/greeting "goodnight" I don't mind hearing my ex or sending me a message "goodnight" or good morning. If he is planning to get me back- well...that might be a good start. The problem is...I am happy with my new found love- so no chance for a reunion. The goodnight message will remain a friendly greetings.
@Nebel23 (46)
• Chile
12 Dec 11
I wouldn't say anything, it's better when you want to move on. The time is very important, doesn't matter if you ended the relationship in a good or bad way.