how to spent these days

That would really hurt for the next few days, just let it out. I can be here as your friend. :) Like what others are telling you to do, try to divert yourself to other things that interests you

I've read the other discussion first before seeing this one... So I understand that your girlfriend had no choice but to accept what her parents wants for her.. to marry someone else. You can either fight for your love and prove her parents you both deserved one another. Or if you can't just move on and accept that you both are not meant for each other. I know it's hard to forget someone you love, but time will heal you and help you move on.

I am so sorry to hear about that conquer. I have gone through such trouble times too. I understand that it is the waiting that makes us feel even more miserable. We have gone accustomed being with someone and that they probably have outgrown and left us. It is very painful, indeed. Know though that you are not the only person going through this right now and there are hundreds of others going through the same thing as you... You are never alone. You have friends, meet with them, keep youself busy. If it helps you cope that you write about her, then maybe you can do that. Eventually you will feel that you no longer feel affected by her saying goodbye to you. You just have to let go of it, not all of it at one time, slowly but surely. Remember you have a friend in me. I would be glad to help you get through this. You see, When i was going through this phase, I never had someone to be with me and I suffered alone - you don't have to.

hello my friend.i can see that you are very lonely.is there something wrong why she said goodbye to you? just deal with the pain like a man bro. feel it deep in your heart.cry if you want.it doesn't make you less of a man if you cry.when you are hurt, then you really loved her.

Cry if you feel like, it will relieve you of the burden you feel inside. You should also distract yourself by doing things you enjoy like sports, going to the films etc Concentrate on your career. if you perform better at work you will feel worthy and your mind will easily shift from her to your work if need arises seek professional counseling good luck

I know it is not easy experiencing those kind of things. It it so untimely since Christmas is coming. Both of you supposedly will celebrate the season. I'm sorry to hear your sorrow. For you to cope up, It will be hard. Don't think of it always. Why don't you go travel with your friends or family. I am sure they are a great help.

don`t be sad..this is destiny why you must be sad...if your girl said goodbye, just smile to her and say to your heart that iam OK and thanks for evertyhing but iam OK even without you... say to her (but in your heart) and you make begin or start your new life..

A goodbye to forever truly hurts, so painful it feels like your heart has been stabbed several times.Overcoming it depends on how you are going to face the reality.Either you go find another one or do some self-talking telling yourself that it is not your loss but hers.It would be rare for her to find a man like you. There are lots of girls around, much better, more brighter and a lot sexier than her.Then move on...Let us see if she doesn't have any regret in losing you.

hi, its a heart breaking experience and its sad. i dont think there is a cure for it. you have to go through the motions and all these will take time. it would be very hard to forget but push yourself to focus on doing other things right now.