torn between friends and hubby

Philippines
December 14, 2011 6:06am CST
I'm torn between my friends and my hubby. You see, my husband doesn't approve of my friends because he thinks they are bad influence for me. I always try to persuade him to just get to know my friends but to no avail he would always say no. And if I would go and visit my friends he would always start an argument on nonsense things. My friends are willing to make amends but he isn't. I love him and I love my friends, I don't wanna turn my back on my friends, with been through a lot together, we're like family. What do i do?
1 response
mr_pearl
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
14 Dec 11
Hello there... Its a bad thing. I'm sorry for you. I think you need to understand why your hubby does not approve your friend... You need to find out the reason. And then you will be able to work on it. Right it appears as if you are stuck, everyone is stuck.. So start working on finding the reasons and how he justifies it. If his reasoning isn't correct, then try to talk to him. Don't argue, just have a conversation... Good Luck!
bambee2179
@bambee2179 (51)
• Philippines
14 Dec 11
Lately, we have not talk about anything that relates to my friends, I don't want to hurt his feelings also. Maybe I should give it a try. Thank you very much