R E L A T I O N S H I P S ... have no meaning....

@busybee10 (3186)
India
December 14, 2011 11:20am CST
These days all the relationships are totally being managed and maintained with selfish motives leaving behind the real charm of that. A couple of decades back...the real charm of relationship was felt and also maintained with high dignity and real value. [b]How do you feel personally about the value of relationship... Please share your valuable thoughts....[/b]
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Dominique25
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
14 Dec 11
I do agree with you. I think a lot of people by their actions cheapen relationships and what they are suppose to be about. It is sad when this is done because then the young generations grow up having a misguided view of what a relationship is. I personally feel that it is important to take relationships seriously. When two people are in a relationship thoughts and feelings are involved. So if a couple aren't serious with one another feelings get hurt. I also feel that it's important to be faithful to one another.
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busybee10
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
6 Jan 12
You are right and I totally agree with your good and inspiring thoughts..what you told is practically correct and one should trust one another....that gives a cherished outlook of life...
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busybee10
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
16 Jan 12
I agree with you...one needs lot of dedication and a positive out look towards the life process then everything will be easy...If you allow laziness to to dominate then everything fails... A strong will also is needed to overcome the negative approaches in life...
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Dominique25
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
6 Jan 12
I think that most of us want to have a cherished outlook on life. We can have one when we do things the right way. Many people think it is to hard to have a good outlook but it really isn't. It's something that we all can achieve in our life.
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chrisanto
@chrisanto (94)
• Philippines
15 Dec 11
Relationship can be managed carefully if you will follow what is right for the both of you. Characters counts a lot like honesty, trust, sincerity in all your deeds. How can you maintain relationship if you dont put value in it.
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busybee10
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
23 Jan 12
I agree with you totally..as these are the basic qualifications one needs to maintain and manage a relationship with total love... But many do not posses these still struggle with all the negative approaches which kills the relationship..
Jennifer
@LovingMyBabies (85125)
• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Dec 11
I think all relationships are different. Some I agree with you are that way but I value my marriage more than anything. We both have respect for each other and love each other very much. We compromise a lot for each other. So not all relationships are like that... =)
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busybee10
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
6 Jan 12
Thanks for your response...it is great to know about your relationship...and that is really wonderful. I have not referred this as a personal issue but instead a general one.... Any how, very very happy to note that and hope you are really enjoying life taking the greatest challenging of compromising between bot of you....
enelym001
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
14 Dec 11
Not all relationships. We cannot actually say that it no longer has meaning. Becaseu there are still couples who loves both unconditionally. The past have some bad relationships too.
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busybee10
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
14 Dec 11
I agree with you totally....and also know that many good and honorable couples are there who maintain the decency of life....balancing the relationship in the odds too. I respect them...but many of them I observe are not having the real relationship and if they have it is totally filled with selfish attitudes....what do you say...???
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bjcelyn
@bjcelyn (108)
• Philippines
3 Jan 12
I agree with you especially because nowadays, I can see that people are in a relationship for the sake of having a relationship. I mean, they may value the relationship but not the person. I have few friends who can't survive for a week without a boyfriend/girlfriend, so once they broke up, they tend to find another girl/guy right after the break up (maybe after 3-5days at least). And for me, that's not a good thing. But of course, there are also people who still value relationships. So I think, we should not generalize. :)
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