Calling Names

Sometimes, we have to deal with these names calling partly because of the error we did. However, there are also times when ignoring what has been said are no longer good enough because it causes us pain and it gives a blow to our self-esteem. During these times, it is good to talk to the person who has said rude things to you. Be firm that you do not want to here those hurtful words. Although you are sorry for the things you've done in the past, you're already paying for those mistakes and his/her words are not making things any better.

We all make mistakes it's human to do so. Also don't look upon them as mistakes but as a life experience. It's easy to point at others but this is not the way. Stick to yourself. I think it's already a lot of if you learn from what went wrong and what worked for you. There is no need for you to be a sheep in the cattle or to be exactly the way others are or others like you to be. Also there is no need to explain or deny whatever you did. You are an invidual and remember that those who point at you, those who are throwing the first stone are seldom free of quilt or mistakes and surely not the most adorable, social or loveable persons there are! Go your way, be who you are, stick to yourself and find new friends who appreciate and respect you the way you are. Don't waste energy on people who are not worth it.

To be honest, I don't get what you mean to say. If you're calling him someone closed to your heart, my question was why he made story behind you and were sure that he was the one who attached to you. You should make your mind up. To be honest, I don't want to have a friend like him and as hard as I could avoid to befriend with him.

I think I know what you mean. Hmmm... If you can confront him with his actuations towards you and settle things in a civil manner... you can do this for the sake of your peace of mind for him to stop and let go. Sometimes, being good enough is not really good enough! We should not let others to step on us and do nothing. Life is tough... and living is tougher! We should not allow someone to make us cry! In your case, be brave to face that guy! Kick his a**! So what if you're this and that... do he care?! You should learn to forget him. He's no worth the fact that he makes you cry! Get up and pick your pieces cearn! There's time for everyone. Maybe yours is yet to come! Cheer up! Life has more to offer! ... mingle with worthy people here on MyLot friend... you can count on us baby!

The mistakes made in the past makes it hard for him to believe you today. You should find out if he trusts you anymore. Ask him and be prepared if the answer is not what you want to hear. If he doesn't, ask him is there anything you could do to change that and really listen to the answer. You've already said that it wasn't true. What else can you do? Did he agree to give you a second chance? I know you believe you deserve a second chance, but does he? Don't just pretend everything is alright. Problems don't go away because you don't talk about them.