How to make a good relationship ?
By min8esign
@min8esign (167)
Indonesia
December 22, 2011 12:16am CST
I been 2 years of marriage and till now everything works fine, quarrels in the household has become a normal thing for me. now that I fear is boredom in my relationship.
Traveling together, is one of the things I do and I'll do whatever it takes to make this relationship feels good.
how bout u?
6 responses
@pibi713 (187)
• China
26 Dec 11
I think marriage is a game of give and take. We can get more if we give more. We can only give the things that we possess. Nobody can give those things he doesn't have. My motto is:improve myself continuously so that I can have more, then I can have the ability to give.
@min8esign (167)
• Indonesia
26 Dec 11
Indeed, it's all about give and take
How much we receive depends on how much we can give.
@squallming (1775)
• Malaysia
22 Dec 11
Maintaining a good relationship needs commitment from both side. Since you are married, it should be easier to manage the relationship. Just remember to always communicate with your spouse in a good manner, that will reduce quarrel a lot
Talking about boredom, it is normal to have such feeling in life or in a relationship. However, you need to know the fact that you two wanted to be together is not about fighting boredom, it's love. Of course, traveling can enhance your relationship if you two haven't spice up your relationship for some time. That's what I do with my girlfriend, we have been together for 827 days and I always bring her to places. I believe it has strengthen her love for me.
Finally, since that you are married, you two can always try out something new and exciting in your room
. I think you understand what I mean here
. this has been proven to enhance relationship between couples and married couples.
Talking about boredom, it is normal to have such feeling in life or in a relationship. However, you need to know the fact that you two wanted to be together is not about fighting boredom, it's love. Of course, traveling can enhance your relationship if you two haven't spice up your relationship for some time. That's what I do with my girlfriend, we have been together for 827 days and I always bring her to places. I believe it has strengthen her love for me.
Finally, since that you are married, you two can always try out something new and exciting in your room. I think you understand what I mean here. this has been proven to enhance relationship between couples and married couples.
@LifeOngoing (129)
• United States
24 Dec 11
I've been together with my wife for a lot longer than our 17 years of marriage. One thing I've learned is arguing is usually about something else. Find out the real reason for your arguments then maybe you can work on a solution. It's normal to have a difference of opinion. A quarrel is a difference of opinion with no real communication, no clear solution and no compromise.
@abotsigaddiel (2)
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28 Dec 11
mine a 2 yr relationship and we spice up our relationship with sociolisation and evangelism together with occational counseling and lisening to relationship/marriage talk together.
