I admit to lingering racism. Is it treatible?

United States
December 27, 2011 5:46am CST
I would be the last person to think I am a racist. Yet I surprise myself when I apply racial stereotypes (in my mind) -- which, I assume, will translate into attitude and action. I was talking to a friend who is visiting here from Birmingham, England. I said, "In the old movies the Irish are portrayed as people who drink too much and get into fights. Is there any truth to that?" He says, "Yes. They are like that." Then I say, "The Scottish are portrayed as cheap (not just frugal) and independent cusses. Is that true?" "Yes," he said. "That's how they are." Then he asked, "From the movies I get the idea that Blacks are unable to control their emotions and are somewhat savage. Is that true?" I said, "I hope not." This conversation was disturbing... disturbing because I didn't say "NO" ...and disturbing for a lot of other reasons. I feel a bit of a moral failure because I've fought racism in myself. What are your thoughts? I'd like to learn from your opinion and observation.
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@bird123 (10632)
• United States
28 Dec 11
The real solution is to go out and make friends with black, irish, and scottish people. Discover what people are really like for yourself. Is it really fair to assume other people's opinions of others as truth?? Personally, I take each person as individuals. With the true diversity in this world, one can never be accurate with labels.
@topffer (42156)
• France
27 Dec 11
When I drink too much, I blame the Polish part in myself, though I am not sure that Polish are drinking more than French. There is a border between local habits -- including religion, food, etc -- and racism, and your smart discussion shows how it is easy to cross the red line if we are not careful.