Fruits of Broken Family what do you do?

Philippines
December 29, 2011 6:06am CST
Have you been part of a broken family? How did you react? What happen to your life after your choice is being done. Does it make sense to you? Do you have your own family now which somehow is related to broken home? How they accept you? or How you and your family accept a new part of family that comes from a broken family? These are the questions that long time ago pop up to my mind. And im finding answers for them. As for me i have answers of my own and really finding out what happen to others. Before with my discussions due to being part of a broken family i became man hater. But then after years somebody open my close mind that not all people or man are the same so i try to have husband and luckily i found the one who will love me as who am i. One of the results also being fruit of broken family is i made myself overweight. Checking if man does not love only the figure of a woman..(that's my line of thinking before). Now because i find the one who loves me of who am i, i am already making myself fit and sexy and that was next in line to my goal.. And so before my topic jumps to another topic can you share if you been into this shoes?
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@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
29 Apr 12
I am, sadly, a product of a broken family. I also had a lot of things running in my mind during that time, when the whole incident was still fresh. I find it hard to trust guys, and people around me. My father has been a good role model for me, as I grow up. He has been a good provider, despite his lack of educational attainment. I was a proud daughter, until we found out the truth about his extramarital affairs. That just really broke me into pieces. Now, I have my own family, but even if I am very happy with the man I'm with, there are still a lot of "what-if's". I can't help but think that the same thing might happen to us, and that's what I always pray for - for God to protect our family from evil lurking around earth, trying to destory families.
• Philippines
5 May 12
hi jur, i know the feeling.. i have same kind of thing in life and things are like that(having what ifs). But i do also always pray to God for all the fears i have. Living one day at a time and making sure that i give LOVE to my dear better half. In return telling him that we can have affairs to others its very easy for sure. But our CHILDREN are the children of the future who will carry later on of the wrong decisions we have... that's why we keep on discussing things in life...and the way we live in marriage life..