inscrutable love feeling

December 30, 2011 2:26am CST
I've got a crush on a guy and can't helping thinking about him every hour, every minute and every second. I broke up with my boyfriend just to chase him and to stay with him. However,it seems that he did not catch his eye on me even if he told me that he did loved me. He never cared about me for what worse situation i was in and never noticed that when i was overlooked by him how embarrased i was. When he was alone or even when he was stayed by his own side and felt loney do he begain to used his smooth tongue. Am i such a stupid woman to fall in love with a guy who never love me? Truely i am such that guy and try to force to forget about him and transfer my attention to another thing,but i can not. My EX boyfriend now begged for redating with him. What should i do to make things perfect at end.
2 responses
bonbon664
@bonbon664 (3466)
• Canada
30 Dec 11
I know how hard it is to love someone who doesn't love you back. The worst thing you can do though, is to humiliate yourself trying to get him to love you. You're not stupid. You need some time to yourself to evaluate what it is you want. I would spend some time on yourself, pamper yourself, and when you're feeling better about yourself, and happier with yourself, then find yourself a new love. I wouldn't go back with the old boyfriend either, he would just be second best for you, and he wouldn't be happy knowing that.
succeednow
@succeednow (1633)
• Singapore
30 Dec 11
Hi mandy8391, First of all you need to search and ask yourself why are you feeling this strong attraction for him. Is it because of his looks or his position or whatever? I hope you realize that love can only be meaningful and can only last if the feeling is mutual. You've already stated that he does not care nor love you. Why are you chasing him? Get a grip on yourself and think things through. Forget about him and move on. Sometimes it can be tough especially when you've such strong feelings. Talk it through with a close friend or relative. I sure things will work out well. Have a nice day.