Reacting Against Anger

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Anger is an expression of emotion that creates tension and conflict. All human beings get angry but not all express their anger in similar manner. Some typed of people do get angry but they do not agree that they get angry. Some when they get angry they do not raise their voice but silently withdraw. Some control or repress their anger. Some people when they get angry, they withdraw and never want to see any people before them. They even warn those who start a conversation saying, “Look I am already angry, don’t irritate me, get away from my sight”. Some will work upon their instinct of getting angry. They want to appear as calm and good. They do not want to give impression to the people that they are angry nor do they want to admit it. They even feel ashamed before the others for having been angry. Some get angry and react. But when the anger is over they do meet the person with whom they had been angry and apologize and even beg for pardon. Some love their name fame and reputation. They demand from all to be respected and never to be challenged. When others do not share their opinions, they do get angry because they are not respected and not been trusted. These even develop a sense of disliking or even hatred towards the persons who do not share the ideas and opinions. Some never show that they are hurt nor tell any time. But they silently withdraw and never cooperate hence fourth. When their invited for a meeting or a party, they give abrupt affirmation and then never turn back. They cancel their participation even at the last moment. They will never forgive the offender. They wait to create a similar situation and then take revenge. They are satisfied only after taking revenge. Some when they get angry simply withdraw and escape from home without informing. They never turn back nor do they return home. They love to provoke jealousy and therefore try to create a new relationship with someone just to provoke jealousy. Some will be very dogmatic and never forgive and never turn back. Even though the other will apologize or beg pardon, they never yield rather become harder and harder. Some when they are angry they make a mountain out of a mole hill. They dramatize and magnify even a very silly affair. They go on repeating the mistake done and humiliate every occasion. Their happiness is just in putting down the other persons and exalting the self. They blindly close eyes on their friend at any fault but never tolerate even a silly mistake from the person who has offended them. For a healthy relationship we need to be mature in accepting the other as she or he is without magnifying or dramatizing a matter un necessarily. Many times we need to ignore. If getting angry is a strong part of our nature, we must find ways to pacify the person without offending.