what is your choice? bright future or true love?

China
January 2, 2012 5:34am CST
if you are now falling in love with someone and now you are also going to be send to other country to work, what is your choice? love or job? of course if you are sent to other country you will have a much brighter future, you will earn much, you will be promoted and you will greatly improve youself. but if you go then you will certainly lose the people you love, because she cannot wait for you a long time , she cannot speak english so you cannot bring her with you because she cannot find a job. so what is your choice? can you help me/
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12 responses
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
4 Jan 12
Oh I would definitely chose love even if it is not true love to suffer afterwards. but what a bright future if he is not beloved. when you're a man who loves you then there is no better than this. because love is important. are born from love so many things so many pleasant memories. so I think without telling you love. but other things will come by itself. nice day!
@soulist (2985)
• United States
3 Jan 12
I am going to say true love is what I want. My bright future wouldn't be happy or enjoyable if I couldn't share it with someone that I loved dearly with all my heart. If you need to chose between a bright future or ture love, true love should win because if your life includes her then the decision should include her.
@julianmac (396)
• Malaysia
3 Jan 12
I'd say take up the job. Do not let this opportunity of a lifetime slip through your fingers. When you have acquired financial stability, you can reach out for everything else that life has to offer easily and this includes true love. I don't think there is such thing as true love exists between a man and a woman. Only infatuation, lust and desire that dominates young hearts.Never let this petty feeling bring you down or hold you back. Put the feeling of love aside as it will cut through your heart like a knife eventually. If your girl loves you, she will wait for you no matter what. So, don't worry pursue your dreams and have a great life ahead.
@mohkanari (1957)
• India
2 Jan 12
It is a very difficult situation. I have sacrificed some of good future chances for love. But, now I think a compromising solution was better, by the experiences of my life.
• Philippines
3 Jan 12
All of us have different answers I mean suggestions of what you can choose or what their choice is but it's only you who can decide at the end..I know it is really hard but if it is really true love why not find ways to be together..everything has a solution. I don't want to choose because if I would, I will better choose both..thank you
@boyuancy (1708)
• India
3 Jan 12
I wasn't this way but I have become very materialistic. I seek material pleasure now, because I think I am not very lucky in finding love. In your situation, I cannot say. If you have the person in your life, you may risk things. But if it is just an attraction, believe me, it isn't half as worth it.
• Indonesia
2 Jan 12
If I were you, of course I will chose a brighter future, maybe she is not belong to you...there are many girls waiting for you if you have bright future. I think you faced on difficult choice, but do not only use feeling, You should also use your brain and calm to make decision it's related to your future, thinking carefully.
@kaeirole (668)
• Philippines
2 Jan 12
that's really a hard thing..i think you and your partner must talk about it..both of you must decide..have a win-win solution..you can try long distance relationship and plan on how can your partner go after where you will be..
@areskya (398)
• Indonesia
2 Jan 12
If your earning now is enough to fulfill your needs now and the next some years, it's okay to stay there with your love. But you think that it's not enough for the next some years, it's better for you to take that job. Your girlfriend can learn English there, learning English with native speaker can make her learn this language fast. It is life, there will be a challenge. If you take it, you'll regret it. If you don't take it, you'll still regret it. Which one you choose?????
@squallming (1775)
• Malaysia
2 Jan 12
There is a serious question on the bright future you mentioned. How bright do you mean it's going to be? You mentioned that being sent to other country to work, it means that you are actually working under some company yeah? If that's the case, I would not regard it as a bright future as working under other people or company won't really give you much of a salary. Maybe enough to survive but won't let you live in luxury. So in your case, I would definitely choose true love. As long as a person love us with all his or her heart, without caring much about other issues such as money etc. There is no need to leave for a so called "bright future" where you won't really get wonderful salary and benefit. Just stay and work hard in your current job or job available around your place. Then you will be able to survive and be with your true love for a happy ending.
@ajagogo (153)
• Philippines
2 Jan 12
I am a practical person so I go for the bright future. If she really loves you,she can wait no matter how long it is. Because you are not doing that for yourself alone, but for her too, for your future.It is a matter of explaining. If she is not willing to wait, then that is the problem. Maybe you can tell her that you will come back for her. And if that time comes and she is still available, then you will get married, and if not, you can move on;)
@5mahi05 (666)
• India
2 Jan 12
I would choose my true love over the bright future. That is because, I can't leave behind the one who stayed with me or will stay with me even at bad times for a bright future. Other than that, if you have your true love with you, then you can conquer the whole world is what I believe in. Such as is the power of love. Don't lose your love for a better future. It may seem wise now, but later on, you will feel like a loser when you have no one to share the success of your life. True love comes only once in your life. The others are just the alternatives that you need to take as the compensations.