To facebook or not to facebook

January 4, 2012 10:09am CST
So with more and more companies having facebook pages and more and more friends keeping in touch that way should I finally succumb to the temptation that is facebook. Now I'm sure it's way to easy to give away your location, your holiday dates, accidentally get you house robbed. I'm sure it's too easy to give away details and pictures of you family especially daughters (you see I've already unwittingly made it known that I'm particularly worried about that, and it doesn't take a genious to work out why). But what if I only read other peoples comments, is it possible to keep my typing fingers firmly in my pockets and not write anything - proabably not. Is it possible ot see who is reading you work or could I be totally anonymous sneeking around finding things out, and if I can do it who else can, it seems far too easy to give away important details.
5 responses
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
5 Jan 12
you are obviously worried about a lot of things, i think the best thing for you to do would be to not use facebook at all. You can still live your life without it. If you know how to control your impulses that may reveal your personal information to the public, then facebook is alright. set limits(especially time limit, facebook can take away hours from your life, distracting you from things which need more of your attention)
5 Jan 12
That is a very good comment, I'd not concidered how addictive it might become, but now you mention it I do know more than one person who spends a great deal of time tracking friends etc. Thanks for your advice, I think facebook is off the carsd at-least for now.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
29 Jan 12
thank you for the rating. At first, resisting facebook was hard for me. But the longer you don't facebook, the less you will feel inclined to use the website. You will realize there are many other things you can do in life other than facebook, and you can sort out many things which would ultimately be good for your future.
• India
5 Jan 12
now facebook is no longer a safe place. i would also like to share ideas to save my account as i have one
5 Jan 12
Looks like thers some pretty good advice in this thread, I guess it's common sense mostly, don't tell people stuff you don't want the world to know!
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
5 Jan 12
I think the easiest thing would be not to post essential information online to say the very least. The thing is that social networking has become a bit too social. And it is obvious that there are going to be people who are going to peak into your pages, unless you set things to private and even then...well I don't know. There have been people who have used Facebook as a way to plan some rather seedy things. In the end, the one thing that you must remember is the golden rule of that if it is on the Internet, then it is most certainly not private. When I was on Facebook, I cringed at a lot of what some people thought was okay to post. There is just some information that must remain private and putting it on the Internet in any form is just asking for headaches. Use privacy filters and don't put anything online that will end up screwing you over later.
5 Jan 12
I can imagine it's far too easy to chat to all these so called friends about all aspects of your personal life, tanks for your comments.
• United States
4 Jan 12
Privacy controls make things very simple for you in keeping important details of your life safe and secure from those you wish not to see them. You also are fully in control of the "friends" that you chose to add on to your page. It is completely up to you as to the things you chose to talk about or the pictures that you post. You can choose to make those pictures that you upload public or private to the friends on your page or the general public. It is totally up to you the things that you share! Have fun!
5 Jan 12
So I'd need to ensure my friends really are my friends, and that any snaps I post are private, that's useful. Thanks.
4 Jan 12
There are some simple things you can do to make Facebook safer. Be sure to read their privacy controls and implement them. Do not add people you do not know. Don't post pictures of family that you will regret. Ultimately though if you never post or interact with friends, there is no real reason to make an account. Many people are more savvy to Facebook now and use the privacy controls to stop just anyone from reading their comments.
5 Jan 12
Thanks for the advice, I just need to convince myself I won't be tempted to blab all my secrets !!