Update your love
By adhyz82
@adhyz82 (36248)
Indonesia
January 4, 2012 10:42am CST
our daily activity sometimes reduce the romantic in the couple..
first of the year of marriage, the world is belongs to both of the couples..but after spend so many times, the world is not belongs to them..
you can see the example in your home too..
the world maybe can`t be the heaven but sometimes can be a world hell..you can see in the morning when everybody in the home always trap in the work or school activities and prepare to make a nervous moment..a father which always think about his activity in the office, and the children which is so busy with the school activity and the mom always trap in home activity..everyone is so busy and forget each other..they forget that they still must be romantic in every situation..
is like that in your home??
and in the afternoon, the situation is still same..the husband who come back to home sometimes never get a romantic respond from his wife, because his wife is already tired of home working..
slow but sure, the activity like that can kill your feeling to your couple..trust me..
why?? because our heart and our mind is not robot..
thats why i always read, update your love..
not like update in your wall facebook..
sometimes it`s easy and not difficult for practising..just like said to your couple :honey, i really love you, and so on..
is it difficult?
but in another situation, woman must be understanding that many of man, sometimes is hard for releasing their romantic side if the woman never ask too for man..maybe..once again i said maybe..
what is your opinion guys?/i do hope you can interact in our discussion here..and iam waiting your respond..
thanks
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4 responses
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
6 Jan 12
Love do die after some time when there are no more sparkles in it. Romantic moments are meant to be created but it doesn't not mean it could keep love alive. In fact, a little sweetness and some laughter do help a lot in keeping the flame burning. Being happy is the most important thing in a relationship and that's the same for married couples. NO matter how tired one is, there will always be a time to talk and topics are generated. It depends on how good each individual is, to break the silence, and break into laughter instead.
@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
5 Jan 12
It takes two to tango so they say. But, for romance to be kept alive, the woman should initiate being romantic because as a woman we are basically loving. When you are loving, your man will be motivated to be loving too. Love begets love.
Once your man arrives, take some time to kiss him once arrives home. Ask him if he is hungry, and assist him in eating , if you and the rest of the family has already eaten. That will be a cue for the man to do some loving gestures to the wife also.
Then, after all chores are done, and you are both in bed, lovingly ask him about his day and also share what happens to your day also.
There are a lot of loving ways. We just have to give some little time for it.
@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
5 Jan 12
I practice what i just preached, or should i say, i speak through my experience.
Yes, i always welcome my husband with a warm kiss on the lips whenever he arrives. And he really likes it, because he reciprocates and embraces me. Sometimes, out of the blue as we are standing side by side in our room, i would suddenly embrace him and he reciprocates.
We, women just always have to initiate romantic gestures.
Yes, i always welcome my husband with a warm kiss on the lips whenever he arrives. And he really likes it, because he reciprocates and embraces me. Sometimes, out of the blue as we are standing side by side in our room, i would suddenly embrace him and he reciprocates.
We, women just always have to initiate romantic gestures.1 person likes this

@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
7 Jan 12
Hi adhyz: Thanks for sharing with us this advise. I think this is the perfect lesson we all should remember everyday. It's very common that people lose the interest on their couples because they are victims of the routine. They forget about being nice and telling their lovers how important they are in their lives and if you don't do this you can even forget the reason why you are with this special person and that is a really sad situation in my opinion.
ALVARO
@moneylots87 (521)
• Indonesia
5 Jan 12
Hey @topic writer, are u from Indonesia? Me too! I am from Bandung, I am new here. Btw my respond to the topic, is I don't know about marriage, I am not yet marry (But soon, 2 years from now, I hope! Ameen! hehe!) so, I can't say anythin, just build more communication to each other! It will help! :)
@adhyz82 (36248)
• Indonesia
5 Jan 12
iam indonesia my friend..
you can check from my avatar..it`s our flag...
iam not married like you too, and i don`t know when i had to married..i confuse..
i do hope it can be useful for you and for me..
iam from sulawesi island...
so welcome to mylot my friend





