i wish to have more fun in life just like what i see in other people

@hotsummer (13835)
Philippines
January 9, 2012 7:15am CST
i notice that a lot of people although not all people would have some form of relaxation daily. either they can go out always or weekly with their friends or relatives. not necessarily spend a lot of money in some good place. but still they manage to have fun without spending a lot of money. hopefully i can this kind of life where i can have some place to hang out and not need to spend a lot of money and still enjoy my time with other people.
11 responses
@arjunm (439)
• India
10 Jan 12
You can have fun without spending too much. There are lots of people in the world who can't spend a whole lot for anything, forget spending too much for fun. Do you think these people never have fun? They do. I have spent three months near Kabul in the middle of the war. I have seen kids who don't get enough food and warm clothes. I have seen them having fun while playing hide and seek in the rubble. I know families of seven members with one earning member who takes home less than two hundred dollars a month, and I have seen them having fun together, spending quality time outdoor. You think they spend "too much"?
@iamroms (78)
• Philippines
10 Jan 12
Yu can if you would want to. you can have this movie amrathin with love ones at home (just cook anything affordable to add more good vibes in ambiance), you can even stroll the park and take happy pictures there, go to the beach and relax there with the sun kiss, and anything you want to do. Believe that you can doi it and you will be able to do it.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
9 Jan 12
I used to be a pay as you go customer of my local sports center. They had an open day in October and some very tempting memberships. I got a years pass so I can have more time for relaxation, enjoyment and fitness. I went there last time for the gym, spa and swimming pool. The time before that I went to my dance class in which the instructor plays Latin American music. Traveling overseas at least once a year is very important to me. Last year I traveled to Colombia. This year I am going to visit Argentina and Chile. I find taking my dogs for a walk is enjoyable and relaxing. I don't need a lot of money to enjoy myself.
• Philippines
9 Jan 12
I wish i can just attend any event that my friends invite me to with out asking some one's permission since I am all grown up already. but knowing I am single, i think i have the chance and opportunity to have fun in different ways. so, i believe in some ways you can have fun too, just have to look at it differently
@jeslin (147)
9 Jan 12
Well first of all is, hang out with the group of people who you like and who share the same interest. Me and my friends can just sit down at some random cafe, play truth or dare and have a lot of fun. We go for interviews together, try to get a work together, save and go on a backpacking holiday. Stuff like that could be fun too! Anything can turn out fun, as long as you enjoy it. =)
• Indonesia
9 Jan 12
I am really poor right now, but I still can hangout with friends have some fun, even I am not spending money at all, or just a little sometime...
@jpso138 (7851)
• Philippines
9 Jan 12
Well, if there is a will there is always a way. It is all up to you how you want to live your life and how to have fun with your life. All you need to do is manage your time well. Think if what you want to do and enjoy each moment. What kind of things you do that makes you happy, go for it... Being happy and having fun does not need to be expensive for as long as you enjoy. Some people think of fun only when they are going out for a trip, going to the beach but even now you can have some fun.. It all depends on what you want and how you see and accept things. I myself is having fun right now mylotting..
• United States
9 Jan 12
Why dont you set it up and go have some fun with your family and see how it all goes. I am trying to plan something this weekend so i can have some fun this weekend as well. Trying to plan something and get everyone there is kind of hard at times but you have to just pick a day and say this is it and have some people there and sometimes not have everyone there but at least your hanging out having some fun at least and getting out of your sheltered inside life. Or just going out with some friends to a bar is kind of fun as well and sometimes you have to do the planning before you can go out and have fun with friends. Hopefully this will help you out. Have fun.
@narnia007 (1050)
• India
9 Jan 12
You just read my mind voice mate.I have been thinking about this recently.It is like to enjoy and hang out with friends,loads of money are spent.I wish I could reduce it.But I don't know what would happen if I reduce my spendings.I have not tried it out.Will the fun remain the same??..It's a doubt.One thing I learned from my friends is that,first I should do things for my happiness,then to satisfy others.If you think,reducing to spend will make you more happy,do it.Besides,life is there to enjoy and have fun.
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
9 Jan 12
Those kind of people seems like are having no problems in their life. Just have to experience good life. I also wished that too. Maybe not now. In the near future I will be able to be like them too. Just think positive my friend.
@Bamboee (645)
• United Arab Emirates
9 Jan 12
Hello Hotsummer, I know how you feel.. Let me shed you light on my life maybe you will not feel so let down.. Well since i have been married, I have not been out since then.. my husband gives his priority to his work and his friends more so he spends his time there. I am all alone at home, almost 12hours every day.. I have a television but my husband refuses to put tv-channels for me.. I cant see the sky because my flat is indoors within the building, so even if i go look at the window I only see another flat's window infront of me.. I dont crave for fun, I crave for living! because fun can come with just 2 people sitting and talking and laughing :) I dont even get that.. I wish that you live your life,with lots of happiness and fun..without being caged! God bless!